How to get over being shy
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From: Govenator Territory
Originally Posted by CiviChik97
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if a stranger ever said, "nice tits" to me, he'd either be hearing me flip the **** out on him for being a complete inconsiderate asswipe, or he'd feel my hand slapping him across the face....all depending on what kind of mood i'm in that day of course.
if a stranger ever said, "nice tits" to me, he'd either be hearing me flip the **** out on him for being a complete inconsiderate asswipe, or he'd feel my hand slapping him across the face....all depending on what kind of mood i'm in that day of course.
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From: Mexico, by Jaymar
If it's a mixed group, go up to the guys and talk about how you banged one of the girls. :grinpimp:
if it's one of their girlfriends, just play it off like it was actually her sisterh:
if it's one of their girlfriends, just play it off like it was actually her sister
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Originally Posted by sinthetiq
from my experience, fraternity/sorority people are the worst when they were nerds/losers in high school and join an organization solely for the purpose of socializing. they become an over-extrovert and become the 'stereotypical' greek.
you lose sight of who you are and become ungenuine and labeled according to your letters. you lose personality and individuality too, ESPECIALLY to those who knew you before. that is *if* you were anti-social before and make a drastic change, after you join.
it gets real weird, esp among old friends and new. :dunno: i speak based on observations.
so, figure yourself out before joining is my motto. it looks real stupid if ur a really shy person, then come out of your shell after u join. people will look at you in a different light
you lose sight of who you are and become ungenuine and labeled according to your letters. you lose personality and individuality too, ESPECIALLY to those who knew you before. that is *if* you were anti-social before and make a drastic change, after you join.
it gets real weird, esp among old friends and new. :dunno: i speak based on observations.
so, figure yourself out before joining is my motto. it looks real stupid if ur a really shy person, then come out of your shell after u join. people will look at you in a different light
either way it's a complete waste of time/breath.
they try to make it sound like you're part of this elite group or you'll be something special if you become a part of their frat. it doesn't mean jack shit in the real world.
btw if you switch the letters r and a you get fart
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Originally Posted by DakarM
either way it's a complete waste of time/breath.
they try to make it sound like you're part of this elite group or you'll be something special if you become a part of their frat. it doesn't mean jack shit in the real world.
btw if you switch the letters r and a you get farth:
they try to make it sound like you're part of this elite group or you'll be something special if you become a part of their frat. it doesn't mean jack shit in the real world.
btw if you switch the letters r and a you get fart
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Originally Posted by sinthetiq
pineapples > me
eh? why? pineapples give you fart? or am i missing something here
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Originally Posted by sinthetiq
pi alpha phi h: ..
h: ..oh one of them useless thingys :chuckles:
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Originally Posted by WiLL
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Originally Posted by sinthetiq
hater :squint:
yeah I wouldn't say hate. just think they are stupid waste of time but that's just my opinion.
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From: Lumberport, WV
Originally Posted by LT6916
actually i'm the same too. i've grown up military-style...don't speak, unless spoken too. so if i'm not approached or asked a question, i won't talk.
Being in the military was the same way and a lot of people thought that I didnt like them just because I didnt talk to them when I saw them, most of the time I just didnt know what to say, or very sure if they wanted me to talk to them.
Ask WCS, I didn't talk to people until I was introduced to them, and then still I let them dictate the conversation.
Since I am now out of the military and back home with a lot of parties and friends, I find it much easier to talk to people, especially girls. You just have to become comfortable in your surroundings, and everything else is easy.