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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 12:40 AM
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I need a big glass of instant-testes... I guess what got me thinking of this is how I take forever to work up the guts to do simple things in furthering a relationship... 4 weeks to ask a girl to the prom when I knew she would say yes.. 4 weeks....

I even get nervous calling people on the phone in fear of sounding stupid....

I use to be like that in high school...I mean I am still not Mr. Confident, but I've learn that I cant be a puss about everything. It is only hurting me and keeping me from getting things. My boss told me a couple of traits that I should work on in order to be a better coordinator for the program...one of them she called the "Asian Guy Syndrome"...and that was being too reserved, shy, and lack of confidence when I say things. Not that other syndrome we have...:sad:
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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 12:41 AM
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I use to be like that in high school...I mean I am still not Mr. Confident, but I've learn that I cant be a puss about everything. It is only hurting me and keeping me from getting things. My boss told me a couple of traits that I should work on in order to be a better coordinator for the program...one of them she called the "Asian Guy Syndrome"...and that was being too reserved, shy, and lack of confidence when I say things. Not that other syndrome we have...:sad:
I'm not really shy alot, I'll speak my opinion, but instantly regret it for putting myself in the spotlight..
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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 12:43 AM
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Originally Posted by MarshyTheKid
I'm not really shy alot, I'll speak my opinion, but instantly regret it for putting myself in the spotlight..

PS- I thank you for getting me hooked on QC. I spend 8 hours last week reading all ~600 comics :loco:
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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 12:46 AM
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PS- I thank you for getting me hooked on QC. I spend 8 hours last week reading all ~600 comics :loco:
:irock: I love that comic. Its addicting. Jeph has a great personality for it. I started reading IndieTits also after QC. Those comics are what got me started on my music spree and got me hooked on lots of Indie rock.
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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 12:49 AM
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Originally Posted by MarshyTheKid
:irock: I love that comic. Its addicting. Jeph has a great personality for it. I started reading IndieTits also after QC. Those comics are what got me started on my music spree and got me hooked on lots of Indie rock.

I'm thinking about picking up a pintsize hoodie h:
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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 12:53 AM
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I'm thinking about picking up a pintsize hoodie h:
I've almost bought a few shirts but then decided that my funds should be saved. I want to get those two posters, and the IndieTits shirt, just cause its funny.
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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted by MarshyTheKid
I realize its normal to do it, but it kind of frightens me. I've always been envious of those people who always act like themselves, who have other people start acting like them, not vise versa. I think everything comes back to my fear of being judged. I'm honestly afraid of that.. I just realized tonight that thats probobly my biggest fear in life, on how I'm judged. I shouldn't care, but I do. I don't want to care, but I do. Thats one reason why I'm such a pansy when it comes to admitting my true feelings for people. For girls I like. And I guess why I'm always so nervous when being put on the spot, in front of a class or a group of people, at an interview, or asked a question I'm unsure of..
That pretty much sums me up.
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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted by spankaveli
That pretty much sums me up.
I actually contemplated not doing an intership at Microsoft for looking stupid, but my prof will make me apply anyway. h: I don't see how some people can have such confidence. One of my friends just goes up to hot girls, asks them out on dates. Sometimes he gets one, other times he doesn't. Even though they're strangers, I'd never be able to do that.
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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 01:19 AM
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:thinking: I think what caused all of this was how I was always bullied and made fun of in Jr High...
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Old Apr 14, 2006 | 05:10 AM
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Originally Posted by MarshyTheKid
Do you guys feel like you change alot going from friend to friend or group to group?
I never do it. How I am here is how I am in person. I'm the same around everyone at work too ... just a bit less cuss words. Instead of using "fag" or "homo" ... I use words like "banana farmer" at the office. h:

The only person I adjust my attitude around is my mom. She thinks I go to the bar to hang out and not drink. :hs:
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