ha.. i got away with that with my mom for a bit..

i find myself changing how i act with friends. like with my really good friends, i find myself being a complete idiot, but obviously with people i dont know very well, such as people at school i dont do the shit i normally would. ive been thinking about it once in a while too and think i should just act one way with everyone i chill with, but its not gonna happen

 

just remember you are being yourself man...
it's human nature to want to fit in..
don't let your jr high experience mess you up. you gotta reverse that shit, it made you the better person you are today.


think your jr experience was bad ,try being marched out of school in hand cuffs
during the middle of lunch for some shit you didn't have a part of...
and having to repeat the 8Th grade for it...
id rather have been pick on!

 

i act as hard and assholish as possible on line... in real life im a kitten and i cry in the corner of my closet....





















seriously man, im the same way h: i act different around my family, friends, teachers.... i have a work personality, family, and friends one. with my friends i tend to be more out going, working im more serious, family im just there... lol

 

In high school, I could hang out with the burners, the jocks, the chicks, the nerds. I had hommies in all corners of that school. The best part about being able to fit-in with so many groups, is that I didn't front on one or the other if the many groups bumped into one another while hanging out. As long as the root of you is strong, you can express different sides of you all you want. I think as people, we're all like a quilt. Many different pieces that make up a whole. The higher the levels of integrity you try to maintain, there's enough warmth from you to go around. Remember, no matter what, EVERYONE is feeling the same way that you are, even if it doesn't look like that. The guys with the big macho egos are the worst offenders. If a good lookin girl doesn't acknowledge them, she's automatically a bitch! All you're letting us know is that you're a softer soul, which is a good thing. When I get nervous about things at times, I defuse my self by reminding myself that I'm here just like everyone else. Anyone who belittles me has no love for me. Hopefully they do it in the company of others so THEY look insecure, and not me.

 

thanks to HAN i find my friends very boring. my friends always bring up things that are reposts here h:. everything in real life is a repost because of han :run:

 

:lmao: i notice the same!

 

not to sound stereotypical or anything... but my friends in highschool were mainly asian... those were the people i kicked it with most of the time. I was acquainted with all of the groups in highschool. i think it was the fact that i had so many extra curricular activies that i got to know a lot of the "groups" From the ROTC kids, to the Arts/Drama, to the Goths that hung out at the corners. As far as I know i was liked, the only people that didnt like me, were the ones i didnt like so it all worked out h:

 

Glad I read the thread, otherwise I would've said the same thing.

In addition to that, we pick up little traits and behaviors that we connect with in our interactions with others. We assimilate these goodies and make them our own. I've noticed little things that I have picked up from people that I met years ago, something that I liked about them, and have used these traits and behaviors without being aware of it until I stepped back to take a look.

 

i tend to carry signs with me... so whenever some one says something ive already heard on here I bust out the :repost: then give them the link :uhhok:

 

It's like something goes down in front of you, and if you had THAT friend that would appreciate the moment the best, you comment in their voice, and crack up people that don't even know that person. To me, that's a form of praying for people. You just sprinkled that person all over the room. Helps me not have to miss people I don't see as often as I'd like.