truf

 

i am 28 dude... and i CAN but i dont htink that giving up so easily is the best solution. thats what i meant to say.

 

She is going to be gone for a year so she will suck new dick and you will eat new pussy.

This just gets rid of any guilty feelings while doing these things

 

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My gut says she's not in it anymore.

Relationships turn into addictions... you might have to quit this one cold turkey

 

i dont like the word choices here

"give up" and "invested" make it sound like you are owed something out of the relationship
this isnt true
you were happy for 3 years, it wasnt a waste of time, it was a great 3 years
maybe you could have another great 3 years with her, maybe you cant
but the important part is that it is a good year for you, regardless of if she is involved in it or not

the relationship is NOT more important than you

in all honesty i think she is out the door already, its very similar to a situation with my exgf, i didnt read the signs and struggled through another year of hell with her and neither of us were happy at all but we felt committed to the relationship and tried to make it work, it didnt

but the only way i could learn this was to go through it, some things in life just are that way

regardless of the outcome, focus on what you can do now, and thats talk to her

i know you cant listen to everyone on here, and that she isnt a bitchy girl like our exgf's, that she is different and loves you and blah blah blah

but in all honesty, she has given up, women dont make decisions, they take actions that force others to make decisions for them
wether she still wants to be with you or not, she has given up and is waiting for you to end it, it may be able to be saved, but i doubt it, and you should be ready to face that and accept it as the correct choice for both of you to move forward and be happy

 

Listen to the been there done that crew, dump her, that is what she wants.

 

You'll meet PLENTY of other girls. And why would you want to hold onto something that is obviously dwindling especially since you'll be apart for a year? That doesnt sound healthy.

 

i'm with whatever craig says

a man who gets taht much tail cant be wrong h:

 

Yeah, it sucks girls seem to go this route rather than being up front about it.

I just had to go through the same thing with my girlfriend, except I'm the one that will be leaving for an extended time. She supports my reasons for going away, which is cool in itself. She's a really cool chick and we agreed that it would be a waste to at least not be good friends. So we are on good terms, and I think that's a great place to be given the circumstances.

I hope things work out as amicably for you.

 

if she is planning on going somewhere for a year and not worry about comming to see u...then i think we all know what should you do....i mean you can sit here for a year and miss her and be sad all the time....or....you can break up with her meet somneone else that actually cares about you and wants to make you happy....i had relationship like that..i was doing everything to make a girl happy and then she would not return any of it and always had something better to do and finnaly after like 7 months i got enough balls and broke up with her and now im with the greatest girl alive that i know loves me and cares about...so i know there is somebody waiting for you and life is to short for you to sit and wait for her...i mean if my girl was going to go somewhere for a year either she wouldnt do it or she would talk about how much it will sux not seeing each other.....sorry bro but thats the sad true....just leave her...go out hang out with friends meet other girls as soon some hottie smiles at you and says hi you gonna start feeling better trust me.....