if you can't please her now, you will never be able to.

and if you can't please her ever, you will feel inadequate forever. this is a terrible thing for the male ego h:

 

fixed

 

yeessss

 

good fix

 

Didn't read whole thread, and this has probably already been said, but you're already in the early stages of breaking up. Whether its a conscious decision or not, women start making the moves long before the final decision is made. Not putting out is step number one. I know it sounds chauvinistic, but its true... when the sex dries up, its a major warning sign (assuming you're both young and healthy). Her being short-tempered and insensitive to your needs and feelings is another sign. Sure, this is bound to happen from time to time, but if its consistent, or if its a change from previous patterns, you're in trouble. I think some women need to go through the process of fuxoring up a relationship before hand just to make it easier to break up. :hs:

If you think there's a chance, you gotta come clean. Don't just suck it up and endure it. Have the conversation now. Tell her you care for her, but she's treating this relationship like garbage, and you wont stand for it. If she shapes up, great, but I don't see a lot of promise here.

 

dude, sorry to hear about it. but i'd agree with the people that said to try and talk a little. just not to go out and make a rash decision. it's possible that what most of the guys said is right.. how she may want out, but maybe she's feeling weird about some things and she could be uncomfortable as well. i think you should talk to her just so you don't lose the relationship you've built up with her. good luck

 

The way i see it you cant keep the relationship going while shes away, but i wouldnt burn any bridges while shes gone. Thats because the culture in India is very different and being immersed in that culture may make her realize how much better she had it with you. They are an uncomprimisingly competitive people and do not share some of the common nice'ities that even us vulgar americans posess. She may spend a year in india and realize how much she really likes being with you.

 

who da fuck?

 

Like everyone said, she is already in the process. If you're not having sex now then wait till you marry her. It will be actually non existent instead of virtually non existent

Plus she's going to be gone for a year and you know you wont see her at all. There's no holding a relationship together solely over the phone. She also says she doesnt know what she's going to do after that meaning she's not committing to you at all. I'd say hit it one last time and get out. Start getting over her. In no time you'll be posting a thread "I met this hot chick. So glad I dumped whats her name"

 

Like said before talk to her about it. Some girls when they get comfortable will argue more. My sister and her boyfriend fight all the time and they like it that way. Just don't break up and not talk to her anymore (what my ex did to me). At least talk about whats going on and go from there.