Hmmm... yeah maybe you're right. I am actually confused about all of this. have i given enough of time towards this? am i rushing anything? should we still try and talk about it? I dont know

 

It's time to end it buddy.Things are only going to get worse. You can do better, even if you are Canadian. h:

 

talk to her before you do anything

the signs are pointing toward her giving up on the relationship, but that is only the signs, only you can find out what is really going on, so find out

you are sexually frustrated, that makes all men on edge, it also makes us impatient and act like assholes

i know the less sex i am having the more pissed i get at the gf for stupid shit, the more sex the more patient and caring i am, its just how guys work

im guessing that a lack of sex for you has made you impatient and angrier than usual
this combined with her leaving soon and the neurotic nature of women has propably concerned her just as much as it is you

sit her down and tell her everything, dont hold back things to not hurt her, and dont hurt her on purpose, just get it out there
tell her you want more sex
tell her you are pissed about the way she has blown off a present that you caringly picked out for her
tell her she is being selfish
tell her you love her

once its all on the table tell her that both of your happiness is priority number one, and that the relationship can add or subtract from that, see where it goes from there

also this isnt your job alone to fix, if she doesnt step up to the plate then is she someone you want to be with?

 

She is already breaking it off, you just haven't come to terms with it.


This is how women do this I have noticed.

 

but i am the one bringing this up... not her. and she wants to talk about it.

 

:werd:


When women are over the relationship, they rarely want to break it off. They just start acting in this neurotic fashion where they get angry in flashes of a second over things that, 4 months prior with them and with everyone else on the planet, would be insignificant.

Then they start doing things specifically against your requests, like surprising you with meals you can't afford after you told them you need to budget.

After that, the sex becomes nearly nonexistant. Any attempt to communicate on this topic will put your life in jeopardy.

A couple months after that, if you don't get the drift, is when they start to think to themselves "Well, I'm basically single. I want to be single. So why don't I act like the single girl I used to be (aka cumdumpster)"







No where near all women are like this, but I've known enough both as friends and as g/fs that have fallen into this path that there are signs apparent. Dude, if you're not happy and if you're stumped at night trying to figure out how to fix it, things might be over :hs:

 

You are bringing it up I understand, you are trying to figure things out I understand.

What you don't understand is she is creating distance so that it is easier to break it off or you get fed up and break it off.

Like I said, it seems to be how women do these things.

 

drew hates me

 

That what i will start with... i mena i've been with her for 3 years and i am usually a very patient person. I can't just give up like this after we both invested so much. i think the lack of patience is from the sexual frustration. And we didnt really get to talk about this yet.

 

Yes you can.

How old are you?
First real relationship?

If you answer under 25 and yes to the questions, the odds are that this wont be the only time you'll experience this.