As the trend shows, get out. I dont know about you but being physical with someone is a huge part of a relationship and if that is lacking, then it makes you want to get it elsewhere.

Three words: fuck that shit.

 

Yeah... pretty much. Actaully this weekend was the first time that it came up that she wont come to see me. We were at lunch and the firends were asking what would happen. she explained that she will be doing 2 internships... 1 in health care and 1 in development. when the friend asked if she would come to Montreal in between she said no... it hurt. that the kind of stuff that makes me want to give up on the relationship.




now it's done i would like to try to keep it as serious as possible... No noods no nothing

 

End it Tark

If she really wanted to make this work, she would make the time to come and see you in between her internships

 

to be honest we didnt get a chance to talk about that part... I think that if we are going to try to make it happen we need a plan. a real plan and stick to it. not just try to "wing it" cause that wont work...

I dont want to breakup with her... i really do want to work it out. i know that a big part of the problem is i am sexually frustrated h: i know it seams weird but it's true.

 

Oh my bad... then do talk to her, I didn't really read the thread... basically I thought only YOU wanted to make it work...

 

Talk it out, kick her out, rub one out....

 

talk about red signs! Drop her now before its too late

 

naw i think we both do... i know i hate that she wants to go to india and do those internship. And i am dealing with trying to accept that this is something that she feels she needs to do.

But lately our relationship has been lacking abit. I dont know if it's caused because of the hard time we both know are a head.

The way i see it is either we solve this problem now, we break up now, or we just wait for 6 months and hope for the best.

 

Don't be an idiot, you will wait 6 month, then another year, then another who knows how long.. I suggest you end it now, even though it might hurt for short term. I been through divorce, I know all about red signs and seems like you guys are a classic case.

 

puffy might sound harsh and dick-like, but he's on the button with this one.