Well, I know she isnt seeing someone else and that she's out having fun. She's been slammed at school lately and her grades are dropping.. so I think it may have something to do with that as well that we havent been able to be together too much lately.

Having this happen made me realize what I took for granted, and maybe that will be her realization also.

If nothing happens tomorrow, I will let it go.

 

oh that's fucking low.

If she cared about you, she would have waited. That's fucking low.

 

so sorry about your breakup..if u can put off contact for about 6 wks. cold turkey then if u feel like it accept her calls..that will give u both a cooling off period so u can recenter yourself. it also helps to prevent saying things to each other that u dont mean that can be hurtful and stay away from places u use to go to together if u can..see other people not necessarily only women to date, take care of yourself. rediscover your hobbies or find new ones. do what u have put off since being a couple took up time. its keeping busy, exercise... talk to your friends as sounding boards. if u can, find 1, sort of a break up buddy, to talk to when u r feeling the urge to call your ex. that is helpful especially in the 1st 6 wks. its filling that void that is there, post breakup and doing things without the ex that is hard at 1st. it will get better.

 

100% accurate statement.

 

Troof dude.....TROOF.

 

shit, i didnt talk to my girl for three weeks or so when she broke up with me. it was great, got her all sad about how she wanted to be friends with me still..

i think ignoring her for a while would be good