Im so lost right now..
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I heard this on the radio from an expert...
girls sometimes fall in and out of love with the guy their with. So like, for a girl, after an argument, she could think in her head that she doesnt love you anymore. And vice versa. For a guy, it doesn't matter if he's in a fight or just had a fight with his girl, he still loves her as long as he's in the relationship with her.
So did you guys have a fight or something?
So did you guys have a fight or something?
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sorry to hear about that but keep your head up and cut contact, go out and have a good time with friends, :boink: alot of random chicks (her bestfriend/cousin/sister) and post nudes of ex is the best way to recover
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From: glass case of emotion
(please note, if this comes off as harsh, it's the truth in my eyes. If you don't want to hear it, I can understand, but realize I've been around long enough to spot bullshit and lies)
I haven't looked at your profile at all, but I'm guessing you're in your early 20's? (maybe 22 or 23?)
What's happening to her is ... well ... she wants to have that new relationship rush again. It's really not you, it's her inner sensation to skank around ... hang off of other guys ... and well, "live life".
She views the 2 year relationship as a weight that's holding her back. Since she can't rationalize her inner desire to be with other guys (because she can't ... if she did, she'd openly admit she was wrong and is a whore), she's saying all sorts of BS like "I don't want to hurt you"
It sucks, but she's saying anything to:
1) save face
2) end this asap
3) move on with minimal guilt
by doing this, she can keep the door to you wide open. She can be a skank, run back to you if needed ... she's scared of looking like an idiot.
You need to realize you've been screwed over. No "best friend" would ever do this. She completely upped, took her ball, and went home.
She did, her mind is made up.
She's only saying what she has to in order to save face.
again, sorry if it's brutal, but I'm serious when answering these questions.
She said that we've both matured alot and that it doesnt seem like we had what we used to, and that she at times doesnt want to be in a relationship and doesnt want to lead me on to something that isnt there.. thing is, ive felt like that too but I did not want to put her through this.. even though she was crying more than I was. I know she is sorry for doing this, but maybe it was better.. maybe its just a break and maybe she'll change her feelings, because I know I will be stuck on her for a long time..
What's happening to her is ... well ... she wants to have that new relationship rush again. It's really not you, it's her inner sensation to skank around ... hang off of other guys ... and well, "live life".
She views the 2 year relationship as a weight that's holding her back. Since she can't rationalize her inner desire to be with other guys (because she can't ... if she did, she'd openly admit she was wrong and is a whore), she's saying all sorts of BS like "I don't want to hurt you"
It sucks, but she's saying anything to:
1) save face
2) end this asap
3) move on with minimal guilt
by doing this, she can keep the door to you wide open. She can be a skank, run back to you if needed ... she's scared of looking like an idiot.
She did, her mind is made up.
She's only saying what she has to in order to save face.
again, sorry if it's brutal, but I'm serious when answering these questions.
Pull my finger
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From: Arizona
As much it it may hurt, what Andrew is saying is true, he said the exact same things my friends told me when I broke up with my g/f for 2 1/2 years :hs:
It's sad but true, go have your fun, there is ALWAYS something better than what you had man, ALWAYS
It's sad but true, go have your fun, there is ALWAYS something better than what you had man, ALWAYS
Pull my finger
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From: Arizona
Talk about where this is going I assume?
From what I'm reading, this would be going to where she has fun, you dig a hole, she has more fun, you dig deeper....
Don't dig so deep that it'll be a pain in the ass to get out dude. Not worth it....
From what I'm reading, this would be going to where she has fun, you dig a hole, she has more fun, you dig deeper....
Don't dig so deep that it'll be a pain in the ass to get out dude. Not worth it....