So I'm going to be a dad...
DAMIMRED
Joined: May 2002
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From: Syracuse, NY
id say dont get married just because she is pregnant, that can ultimately lead to resentment.
i was in a similar position at 20, it turned out to be a false alarm but.... I was going to cut my class load down to part time, and find at least 1 full time job to support my kid. Also, had my car for sale and was looking for a cheapo beater....
dont get carried away but dont be a deadbeat. and remember, it's your kid too so you have every right to be in on the decision making right along with having the responsibility that goes along with it.
i was in a similar position at 20, it turned out to be a false alarm but.... I was going to cut my class load down to part time, and find at least 1 full time job to support my kid. Also, had my car for sale and was looking for a cheapo beater....
dont get carried away but dont be a deadbeat. and remember, it's your kid too so you have every right to be in on the decision making right along with having the responsibility that goes along with it.
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Joined: Apr 2006
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dam, good luck bro. i dont mean this in a mean way, but you should of been aware and used a glove. i know how you feel about having no one to talk to. when my gf was late 2 weeks of her period, i was paranoid. but, i didnt have anyone to talk to. good luck bro
ZOMG Pew Pew Laserbeams
Joined: Jul 2002
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Take it one step at a time, figure out your priorities Pete. I know you can do anything you set your mind to, you're just that kinda guy.
School is important and can lead to more opportunities in life. Set that straight.
A baby is also important so do your best as a father. You know your responsibilities and priorities, I'm sure you'll pull through. Good luck Pete, I'm sure you'll do the right thing.
School is important and can lead to more opportunities in life. Set that straight.
A baby is also important so do your best as a father. You know your responsibilities and priorities, I'm sure you'll pull through. Good luck Pete, I'm sure you'll do the right thing.
Live Free Or Die
Joined: Apr 2003
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From: San Diego County
Another vote for finish school. It might suck now, but I think it will be better in the long run. If your family is supportive, as you've indicated they are, I'm sure they'll help out as much as they can.
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From: Westside til I die
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