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So I'm going to be a dad...
Here's the deal. My girl is 2 months pregnant. I don't think I am ready to be a dad but I am accepting the fact that it is going to happen soon no matter what. She is going to have the baby for sure no matter what so I am being as supportive as I can and I have the support of my family and everything. The problem is that I am 22 years old, just starting my second year of college and barely have an income to support myself. Not only that but she lives 3 hours away in the Bronx and may not be able to get a transfer to Albany to live with me. I was really debating whether or not to post this but honestly, I don't have a lot of people to talk to about it other than my family and sometimes you just want to let your friends know. So... How do I do this?
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make sure that little sucka is yours before you shell out cash.
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Originally Posted by RB
(Post 3327609)
make sure that little sucka is yours before you shell out cash.
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If you plan on being with her, then it sounds like you have more flexibility on where you can live. Knowing you for a bit, I think you'll be okay. You've got a good head on your shoulders and a good heart.
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Holy damn, Pete!
Guys with class will do the right thing (and you know what I mean), however if you aren't ready at all...I'm sure she isn't either. Talk about it quick. |
my first thought is to suggest to you to do everything possible to finish school, but without neglecting that baby... toughie...
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Get married foo!!!!
Old Skool Then move to the BX burrough |
Originally Posted by Pete
(Post 3327611)
Well yeah, I had that in mind... But I am nearly positive that it is my kid.
Nearly positive isn't the same as 100% sure :o Seriously though, I have no real advice, but good luck |
Originally Posted by Brar
(Post 3327612)
damn dude, that sucks. I wish you the best of luck.
Why does she want to keep it? |
Originally Posted by RB
(Post 3327609)
make sure that little sucka is yours before you shell out cash.
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