Here's the deal. My girl is 2 months pregnant. I don't think I am ready to be a dad but I am accepting the fact that it is going to happen soon no matter what. She is going to have the baby for sure no matter what so I am being as supportive as I can and I have the support of my family and everything. The problem is that I am 22 years old, just starting my second year of college and barely have an income to support myself. Not only that but she lives 3 hours away in the Bronx and may not be able to get a transfer to Albany to live with me. I was really debating whether or not to post this but honestly, I don't have a lot of people to talk to about it other than my family and sometimes you just want to let your friends know. So... How do I do this?

 

make sure that little sucka is yours before you shell out cash.

 

Well yeah, I had that in mind... But I am nearly positive that it is my kid. I mean, we've been seeing each other for a year and all (we've known eachother for a little longer than that though).

 

If you plan on being with her, then it sounds like you have more flexibility on where you can live. Knowing you for a bit, I think you'll be okay. You've got a good head on your shoulders and a good heart.

 

Holy damn, Pete!

Guys with class will do the right thing (and you know what I mean), however if you aren't ready at all...I'm sure she isn't either. Talk about it quick.

 

my first thought is to suggest to you to do everything possible to finish school, but without neglecting that baby... toughie...

 

Get married foo!!!!

Old Skool

Then move to the BX burrough

 

Nearly positive isn't the same as 100% sure

Seriously though, I have no real advice, but good luck

 

:eh: because it's her baby?

 

werd. other than that dude, good luck bro. how old is she?