Does the Friend Zone Really Exist?

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Dec 27, 2006 | 11:04 AM

#51

e3NiNe

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From: glass case of emotion

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Originally Posted by RB

Well there are a lot of things that play into me not wanting to do it

a.) she'd be my rebound
and b.) she's not exactly the least promiscuous girl in the world

good choice

no need to get mentally attached to any chick.

Dec 27, 2006 | 11:08 AM

#52

snitches get stitches

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From: Portland, OR

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Originally Posted by Dweezel

Promiscuous women are using their body instead of their mind to find the right one. If you like her for who she is and her attractiveness is an added bonus, I say go for it. Especially if you understand that there is more to her than a pretty face and a nice ass.

Well she's not a slut, she's only gone all the way with 2 guys, but the number of people she's "messed around with" (see: everything but sex) is a lot higher than that.

Dec 27, 2006 | 11:09 AM

#53

DarkSideAccord

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From: So Cal

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Originally Posted by e3NiNe

When you're in the friendzone, there's really NOTHING wrong with you ... so, your bud might try to pass you along. There's nothing bad about hooking 2 good people together.

After an evaluation of positives and good things to propose, your female bud might be like ... "heeeey ... he would make an excellent boyfriend". At that point, you're in the friendzone ... with an escape path.

Around xmas, I purchased a PS3 with intentions of reselling. After reading about it and realizing how cool it was ... I kept it.

Same concept?

no middle man here... i was looking for a gf and she offered to help.... wasn't like we were set up or anything... the way i see it, this technique is basically information gathering... u'll basically tell her everything tht u would not tell ur gf, and she'll also know ur likes and dislikes... in time, u'll start to see ur likes popping out into reality... eg, u like cakes, she'll start baking more cakes etc

Dec 27, 2006 | 11:13 AM

#54

Dweezel

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Quote:

Originally Posted by RB

Well she's not a slut, she's only gone all the way with 2 guys, but the number of people she's "messed around with" (see: everything but sex) is a lot higher than that.

Even better. Seems like she has her head screwed on relatively straight. I agree that you shouldn't do anything until you are ready. That can fuck things up pretty nicely.

Dec 27, 2006 | 02:14 PM

#55

ED9man

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This friend zone is basically something that only exists if the guy wants to date but the girl doesn't but wants to keep him around as a friend right?

Dec 27, 2006 | 02:18 PM

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dj02

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From: cali

its all BS unless there ugly

Dec 27, 2006 | 04:33 PM

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95SiR

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From: los josengeles

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Originally Posted by e3NiNe

Getting out of the Friend Zone is brutal. The only thing that can do it is time and space. You need to do a mental reset on the girl on who you are and move from there.

I was told that "Friend Zone" guys are placed there instantly. You don't just fall into it ... it's more of an instant determination on the girl's part if you're "dateable" or "undateable".

undateable = no instant attraction, no chemistry ... but a nice person.

pretty much.

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