Does the Friend Zone Really Exist?

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Dec 27, 2006 | 10:46 AM

#31

Black2KGSR

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Originally Posted by rebeld

i try that with my friend and she gets mad when i hit on her friends...

she wants you for herself.

Dec 27, 2006 | 10:48 AM

#32

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Originally Posted by e3NiNe

maybe because you're not the type to enjoy meaningless relations?

"fuck" sounds so ... cold and detached.

in your mind, sex is better when you truly like / love / are attracted to the other person.

He's a vagina like that.

Dec 27, 2006 | 10:48 AM

#33

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Originally Posted by e3NiNe

maybe because you're not the type to enjoy meaningless relations?

"fuck" sounds so ... cold and detached.

in your mind, sex is better when you truly like / love / are attracted to the other person.

thanks doc, I already knew that

And I am attracted to her, at least physically.

Dec 27, 2006 | 10:48 AM

#34

Dweezel

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Originally Posted by HondaKitten

I don't consider it a stable. I consider them friends and I like hanging out with them. Just don't jepordize the friendship with trying to make a move. It's the fastest way out of the friend zone and into the I don't know you anymore zone. Guys who do that were obviously not cool with being your friend.

See I look at it differently. I don't mean for this to come off as conceited but I am a special person and have a gift. My abilities are going to make me successful in life. Understanding that, I am a guarded person and it takes a lot for me to show someone more than my surface. I want make sure that people like me; for my good and bad qualities, versus liking what I can do for them.

I think that women have a friend zone in two stages of their life; the stage they are figuring out what they want and the stage they have met their other half. The latter is completely understandable while the former is annoying. In fact, I usually don't associate myself with women who have no clue what they want because they can be frustrating.

Dec 27, 2006 | 10:48 AM

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e3NiNe

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Originally Posted by Black2KGSR

sounds about right.
I've turned down girls that wanted to just "fuck". That was years ago, though...I don't think I would now.

Think of the "fuck" as an M5 test drive. Yeah, it might have been fun ... but you go home without the car.

Look back on the experience as something different, but fact is ... no M5 in your garage = no win.

Dec 27, 2006 | 10:48 AM

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shirley

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Originally Posted by Black2KGSR

she wants you for herself.

one can hope

this is the same chick i was talking about this morning.....

my cuddle friend:uhhok:

Dec 27, 2006 | 10:49 AM

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e3NiNe

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Originally Posted by RB

thanks doc

get that rash looked at :run:

Dec 27, 2006 | 10:49 AM

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v6_accord_jerz

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From: Dirty Jersey

Well technically sex = fuck, but at the same sex != fuck.

Dec 27, 2006 | 10:50 AM

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friendzones only exist because the guy is physically unattractive and un-dateable. its like when you have an ugly girl as a friend. you keep her around, have to think twice about hitting it, and if you do hit it you keep it on the DL