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Pull my finger
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From: Arizona
Originally Posted by e3NiNe
I just wish there was one gigantic, epic, way to say ... "leave me the f*ck alone" ... :thinking:
I'm pretty sure she still browses these boards, so there ya go. I should post a link to the gun show from a week ago.
I'm pretty sure she still browses these boards, so there ya go. I should post a link to the gun show from a week ago.
and did someone say GUN SHOW!?!?!?!
WARNING WARNING!
Tickets are 20 bucks a pop
CHRISTMASTIME IN IRAQ
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From: Bay Area
Originally Posted by e3NiNe
what happened was ...
me and gf broke up about 6 weeks ago. (A lot of you chipped into that large spawning thread, which I'll never forget)
I knew what I had to do to move on ...
- removed and blocked from AIM
- removed and blocked from all blogs
- removed and blocked from my cellphone
- removed and boxed all of the things from our relationship.
- no contact, no shit talking, no mention, just doing MY thing ... I haven't spoken a damn word to her since the breakup, not even a whisper.
All of the above happened instantly. I treated her cancer and cut her out of my life overnight. I'm not shit talking her, but the entire situation wasn't a positive in my life. I didn't need it, so I just removed it.
Keeping emotional baggage around is like having cancer, and learning to like it. It makes no sense.
Of course, my actions were taken by her as "omg ... he's still loves me lolz" and I'm pretty sure that this was projected to anyone and everyone. Why do I care?
1. it's not the truth
2. I did absolutely nothing but remove a disease
3. an inner desire just to mouth off and place check egos
I'll admit it, I tend to show off ... but not in a way where I'm a blatant attention whore saying anything, coming to bullshit conclusions just to gain an audience who want to know what's with me.
me and gf broke up about 6 weeks ago. (A lot of you chipped into that large spawning thread, which I'll never forget)
I knew what I had to do to move on ...
- removed and blocked from AIM
- removed and blocked from all blogs
- removed and blocked from my cellphone
- removed and boxed all of the things from our relationship.
- no contact, no shit talking, no mention, just doing MY thing ... I haven't spoken a damn word to her since the breakup, not even a whisper.
All of the above happened instantly. I treated her cancer and cut her out of my life overnight. I'm not shit talking her, but the entire situation wasn't a positive in my life. I didn't need it, so I just removed it.
Keeping emotional baggage around is like having cancer, and learning to like it. It makes no sense.
Of course, my actions were taken by her as "omg ... he's still loves me lolz" and I'm pretty sure that this was projected to anyone and everyone. Why do I care?
1. it's not the truth
2. I did absolutely nothing but remove a disease
3. an inner desire just to mouth off and place check egos
I'll admit it, I tend to show off ... but not in a way where I'm a blatant attention whore saying anything, coming to bullshit conclusions just to gain an audience who want to know what's with me.
Know why?
Anyone with half a brain will immediately know what's going on for reals. Anyone who doesn't isn't worth dealing with.
Don't even give it the benefit of acknowledgement. That's just validating her point. Let her flounder in her own world, and if anyone you care about brings it up to you, give it the brush off in the most dismissive way. It's the past, and let it stay where it belongs. If you acknowledge it, then you're just letting her actions drag you down.
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From: glass case of emotion
Originally Posted by pierced1
But the one thing you can get out of it. Is the fact that she knows shes not getting to you because she hasn't heard of you retaliating in anyway. That shit alone with eat at a female until she stops.
I'm not retaliating at all. If she sees this, so be it ... but I'm absolutely as is, no contact ... I don't need it.
Originally Posted by TaekOne
:rofl: :rofl: gun show ftw
Originally Posted by RicoD
"LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE"
and did someone say GUN SHOW!?!?!?!
WARNING WARNING!
Tickets are 20 bucks a pop
and did someone say GUN SHOW!?!?!?!
WARNING WARNING!
Tickets are 20 bucks a pop
Originally Posted by aux
aux :hi5: andrew
Originally Posted by Hambone
girls are so friggin evil
Originally Posted by F22B Prelude
Chicks are for fegs h:
h:(responding to epoch now)
Rachel Bilson
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From: South Bend/Walkerton, Ind
I ran into my old girl about 3 weeks ago and I snapped off....i almost beat up a bunch of stick dudes.....I really should stop being a drunkard but its so much fun......I'm straight now...Tomorrow is my birthday, and its gonna be wylin out
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From: glass case of emotion
Originally Posted by Epoch
Oh, then what she's doing is wonderful and you should let her continue on her path.
Know why?
Anyone with half a brain will immediately know what's going on for reals. Anyone who doesn't isn't worth dealing with.
Don't even give it the benefit of acknowledgement. That's just validating her point. Let her flounder in her own world, and if anyone you care about brings it up to you, give it the brush off in the most dismissive way. It's the past, and let it stay where it belongs. If you acknowledge it, then you're just letting her actions drag you down.
Know why?
Anyone with half a brain will immediately know what's going on for reals. Anyone who doesn't isn't worth dealing with.
Don't even give it the benefit of acknowledgement. That's just validating her point. Let her flounder in her own world, and if anyone you care about brings it up to you, give it the brush off in the most dismissive way. It's the past, and let it stay where it belongs. If you acknowledge it, then you're just letting her actions drag you down.
This is pretty much the way I've been handling it and will continue to do so. 100% sure, I just don't give 2 shits about anything anymore.
Any misconception on "how I am" or "how he's dealing" ... guess what, I've dealt, it's done.
thanks guys. I was on the verge of going ape shit, but it ain't worth it. I'd rather be playing with my Lite.
Pull my finger
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From: Arizona
Originally Posted by e3NiNe
I was on the verge of going ape shit, but it ain't worth it. I'd rather be playing with my Lite.
Play with your Lite ( Should get Mario Kart soon too :run: )
and if you feel like you're on the verge of going ape again.... then do it...
cept do it this way
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From: Costa Mesa
hi andrew! yeah.. i think she expected you to linger around afterward, to still try and contact her and stuff and when you didn't, it probably took her by surprise and confused her a little. she probably has been thinking about your relationship a lot to be talking about it so much. she's really just saying that stuff to make her feel better and make her not look like a reject. just do what you've already done, move on and don't let it bother you. girls will be girls :hs: