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Push to shock!
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From: Palo Alto, CA
Originally Posted by Epoch
Oh, then what she's doing is wonderful and you should let her continue on her path.
Know why?
Anyone with half a brain will immediately know what's going on for reals. Anyone who doesn't isn't worth dealing with.
Don't even give it the benefit of acknowledgement. That's just validating her point. Let her flounder in her own world, and if anyone you care about brings it up to you, give it the brush off in the most dismissive way. It's the past, and let it stay where it belongs. If you acknowledge it, then you're just letting her actions drag you down.
Know why?
Anyone with half a brain will immediately know what's going on for reals. Anyone who doesn't isn't worth dealing with.
Don't even give it the benefit of acknowledgement. That's just validating her point. Let her flounder in her own world, and if anyone you care about brings it up to you, give it the brush off in the most dismissive way. It's the past, and let it stay where it belongs. If you acknowledge it, then you're just letting her actions drag you down.
it's my D in a B
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From: Your Mom's House
If shes not on your IMs, not in your phone, etc, etc, how do you know she's behaving this way? Is this just second hand info from your mutual friend?
I understand how you feel, but I would refrain from telling her to fawk off unless she really pushes you (i.e. calls you a bunch and talks shit or something).
I understand how you feel, but I would refrain from telling her to fawk off unless she really pushes you (i.e. calls you a bunch and talks shit or something).
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From: Westside til I die
Originally Posted by e3NiNe
side note:
I guess she has some new "guy", the one I had under suspect when we broke up. I guess his ass was laid off ... at the same time I was pushed to an IS lead position w. project management responsiblities.
I <3 Karma.
I'm doing just fine, she's with a guy who collects unemployment and ain't fresh as amis.
I guess she has some new "guy", the one I had under suspect when we broke up. I guess his ass was laid off ... at the same time I was pushed to an IS lead position w. project management responsiblities.
I <3 Karma.
I'm doing just fine, she's with a guy who collects unemployment and ain't fresh as amis.
Don't you just love it when stuff like that happens? I know I do.
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Originally Posted by dubcac
Don't you just love it when stuff like that happens? I know I do.
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Originally Posted by RicoD
You're a golfer :squint: 
Exactly.
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From: glass case of emotion
thanks for all the words guys, seems like we've all been here before:hs:
mutual friends, word of mouth.
not at all. If I do, I promised to punch myself in the teef.
Originally Posted by white_n_slow
If shes not on your IMs, not in your phone, etc, etc, how do you know she's behaving this way? Is this just second hand info from your mutual friend?
I understand how you feel, but I would refrain from telling her to fawk off unless she really pushes you (i.e. calls you a bunch and talks shit or something).
I understand how you feel, but I would refrain from telling her to fawk off unless she really pushes you (i.e. calls you a bunch and talks shit or something).
Originally Posted by F22B Prelude
You've been looking at her Myspace haven't you? :nono: