what happened was ...

me and gf broke up about 6 weeks ago. (A lot of you chipped into that large spawning thread, which I'll never forget)

I knew what I had to do to move on ...
- removed and blocked from AIM
- removed and blocked from all blogs
- removed and blocked from my cellphone
- removed and boxed all of the things from our relationship.
- no contact, no shit talking, no mention, just doing MY thing ... I haven't spoken a damn word to her since the breakup, not even a whisper.

All of the above happened instantly. I treated her cancer and cut her out of my life overnight. I'm not shit talking her, but the entire situation wasn't a positive in my life. I didn't need it, so I just removed it.

Keeping emotional baggage around is like having cancer, and learning to like it. It makes no sense.



Of course, my actions were taken by her as "omg ... he's still loves me lolz" and I'm pretty sure that this was projected to anyone and everyone. Why do I care?

1. it's not the truth
2. I did absolutely nothing but remove a disease
3. an inner desire just to mouth off and place check egos

I'll admit it, I tend to show off ... but not in a way where I'm a blatant attention whore saying anything, coming to bullshit conclusions just to gain an audience who want to know what's with me.

 

Yeah, one of the VP's here.

But I kind of like my stay here so I will just bite the lip.

 

how you handled yourself is exACTly how i did everything when i broke up about 4 months ago, except i went ahead and threw everything in those boxes in the garbage h:

not sure if i got it correctly, but is she tryin to get everyone else to think that youre still interested in her, thus attempting to bolster her own selfconfidence? if thats the case, i wouldnt go near her. it'll be like a cancer trying to come out of remission. just keep it cut off.

 

:lmao: you are a god :bowdown:


The thing is, I still talk to some of her friends ... one of them in particular, I went to high school with back in the mid 90's.

I think she's doing this:
1. for attention
2. to boost her self worth / confidence / head / ego?

I think I'm going to keep my mouth shut, but I'm sure it'll only take a slight nudge to set me off. I'm that close.






side note:
I guess she has some new "guy", the one I had under suspect when we broke up. I guess his ass was laid off ... at the same time I was pushed to an IS lead position w. project management responsiblities.

I <3 Karma.

I'm doing just fine, she's with a guy who collects unemployment and ain't fresh as amis.

 

Just keep doing your thing and dont worry about her.If you share the same friends they will know how you are dealing and your feelings about her if they know you well enough. Just let it blow over.

 

knowing how most girls act, i can agree that she could be doing all of this as a means of self-defense. if i remember correctly, you guys were together for a while, and even when you told us of your breakup im sure all of us were like :eek4:, mostly cuz youre a great dood (no :ghey:, just tellin it how it is) and if anything it was her loss.

i think shes more or less starting to realize that maybe she did make a huge mistake. whether this 'mistake' was regarding losing a great person or the fact that her new 'interest' just got laid off, i dont know. but girls rarely get directly confrontational; they just go through everyone else to make your life as crappy as possible.

 

Hahaha....fuck that bitch....you know exactly how i feel on the situation...she's doing exactly what any other immature broad would do. She fucked up...she starting to realize she's fucked up...but to give herself a false sense of self-esteem and to gas her head up...she thinks you still want her...when in reality...all you're looking for is a Trouser friendly kiss...but not from her...

Keep on truckin and fuckin my friend....

 

I hear ya.

It just sucks that when you're doing absolutely nothing and it's taken in another way. It pisses me off. :madr:

I'm not sad, I'm not depressed, I'm not in love, I'm me ... and I'm truly and 100% over this entire horse shit.

I guess it might not seem like it because I'm venting again, but honestly ... I'm done with this garbage.



I think you're right on this. If you had a newsletter, I'd subscribe.

:lmao:

I just wish there was one gigantic, epic, way to say ... "leave me the f*ck alone" ... :thinking:

I'm pretty sure she still browses these boards, so there ya go. I should post a link to the gun show from a week ago.

:lmao:

damn that jae, always keepin it real. "trouser friendly kiss" :lmao:

 

But the one thing you can get out of it. Is the fact that she knows shes not getting to you because she hasn't heard of you retaliating in anyway. That shit alone with eat at a female until she stops.

 

:rofl: :rofl: gun show ftw