Originally Posted by e3NiNe
The thing is, I still talk to some of her friends ... one of them in particular, I went to high school with back in the mid 90's.
I think she's doing this:
1. for attention
2. to boost her self worth / confidence / head / ego?
I think I'm going to keep my mouth shut, but I'm sure it'll only take a slight nudge to set me off. I'm that close.
side note:
I guess she has some new "guy", the one I had under suspect when we broke up. I guess his ass was laid off ... at the same time I was pushed to an IS lead position w. project management responsiblities.
I <3 Karma.
I'm doing just fine, she's with a guy who collects unemployment and ain't fresh as amis.
knowing how most girls act, i can agree that she could be doing all of this as a means of self-defense. if i remember correctly, you guys were together for a while, and even when you told us of your breakup im sure all of us were like :eek4:, mostly cuz youre a great dood (no :ghey:, just tellin it how it is) and if anything it was her loss.
i think shes more or less starting to realize that maybe she did make a huge mistake. whether this 'mistake' was regarding losing a great person or the fact that her new 'interest' just got laid off, i dont know. but girls rarely get directly confrontational; they just go through everyone else to make your life as crappy as possible.