Originally Posted by e3NiNe
what happened was ...
me and gf broke up about 6 weeks ago. (A lot of you chipped into that large spawning thread, which I'll never forget)
I knew what I had to do to move on ...
- removed and blocked from AIM
- removed and blocked from all blogs
- removed and blocked from my cellphone
- removed and boxed all of the things from our relationship.
- no contact, no shit talking, no mention, just doing MY thing ... I haven't spoken a damn word to her since the breakup, not even a whisper.
All of the above happened instantly. I treated her cancer and cut her out of my life overnight. I'm not shit talking her, but the entire situation wasn't a positive in my life. I didn't need it, so I just removed it.
Keeping emotional baggage around is like having cancer, and learning to like it. It makes no sense.
Of course, my actions were taken by her as "omg ... he's still loves me lolz" and I'm pretty sure that this was projected to anyone and everyone. Why do I care?
1. it's not the truth
2. I did absolutely nothing but remove a disease
3. an inner desire just to mouth off and place check egos
I'll admit it, I tend to show off ... but not in a way where I'm a blatant attention whore saying anything, coming to bullshit conclusions just to gain an audience who want to know what's with me.
how you handled yourself is exACTly how i did everything when i broke up about 4 months ago, except i went ahead and threw everything in those boxes in the garbage
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not sure if i got it correctly, but is she tryin to get everyone else to think that youre still interested in her, thus attempting to bolster her own selfconfidence? if thats the case, i wouldnt go near her. it'll be like a cancer trying to come out of remission. just keep it cut off.