Originally Posted by e3NiNe
what happened was ...
me and gf broke up about 6 weeks ago. (A lot of you chipped into that large spawning thread, which I'll never forget)
I knew what I had to do to move on ...
- removed and blocked from AIM
- removed and blocked from all blogs
- removed and blocked from my cellphone
- removed and boxed all of the things from our relationship.
- no contact, no shit talking, no mention, just doing MY thing ... I haven't spoken a damn word to her since the breakup, not even a whisper.
All of the above happened instantly. I treated her cancer and cut her out of my life overnight. I'm not shit talking her, but the entire situation wasn't a positive in my life. I didn't need it, so I just removed it.
Keeping emotional baggage around is like having cancer, and learning to like it. It makes no sense.
Of course, my actions were taken by her as "omg ... he's still loves me lolz" and I'm pretty sure that this was projected to anyone and everyone. Why do I care?
1. it's not the truth
2. I did absolutely nothing but remove a disease
3. an inner desire just to mouth off and place check egos
I'll admit it, I tend to show off ... but not in a way where I'm a blatant attention whore saying anything, coming to bullshit conclusions just to gain an audience who want to know what's with me.
Oh, then what she's doing is wonderful and you should let her continue on her path.
Know why?
Anyone with half a brain will immediately know what's going on for reals. Anyone who doesn't isn't worth dealing with.
Don't even give it the benefit of acknowledgement. That's just validating her point. Let her flounder in her own world, and if anyone you care about brings it up to you, give it the brush off in the most dismissive way. It's the past, and let it stay where it belongs. If you acknowledge it, then you're just letting her actions drag you down.