Originally Posted by Epoch
Oh, then what she's doing is wonderful and you should let her continue on her path.
Know why?
Anyone with half a brain will immediately know what's going on for reals. Anyone who doesn't isn't worth dealing with.
Don't even give it the benefit of acknowledgement. That's just validating her point. Let her flounder in her own world, and if anyone you care about brings it up to you, give it the brush off in the most dismissive way. It's the past, and let it stay where it belongs. If you acknowledge it, then you're just letting her actions drag you down.
no acknowledgement [check]
This is pretty much the way I've been handling it and will continue to do so. 100% sure, I just don't give 2 shits about anything anymore.
Any misconception on "how I am" or "how he's dealing" ... guess what, I've dealt, it's done.

thanks guys. I was on the verge of going ape shit, but it ain't worth it. I'd rather be playing with my Lite.