for all you know he could have something like that ... something he tosses $40 here or $50 there into. you dont know he does it so how can you be offended by it? i'm hearing what you say but i'm telling you right now you would probably be surprised at the number of people who have stashes of money that their SO doesnt know about ... and yes granted i bet the majority of people who do have such stashes are male.

if he came home say tommorow with a brand new bike and you were like where did you get the money for that and he said oh been saving it on the side for a year now ... thats the same thing ... and i bet you it happens someday

 

that's right. take advice from the single, stripper-dating, jesse hfawk:

 

LOL!!! You so craaazy!!:run:

 

mo money mo problems. that is why i don't have mr. denny's money.

 

me and my wife have different account and a shared one. after i pay my half of bills, she doesnt give a damn about what i do with the extra. and me the same with her. if u were to hide something like an account from her, she might end up having some kind of a trust issue with you after that. stuff like this can go either way

 

that is going to be a problem right there, you guys pay half on the bills.

 

Once I told her about them, she doesn't want her name on them even when we get married, but it will be. She said she doesn't want to even have access to them, to much responsibility from her end :O

 

i dont know, joint accounts scare the hell out of me.

 

all of our accounts are joint now, but she still puts money in her account she had before marriage and i put my money in mine. and then we have hsbc where we both put some savings into. we dont necessarily pay half, but we both pay certain bills. none of our CCs are joint, and we pay our own CC bills. but we both know how much money we have total. and we almost always talk about purchases we're going to make that are at least a couple hundred dollars.

 

just cuz i single dont mean i aint responsible and whatnot

strippers make good money ... and buy me shit ... when they stop buyin me shit i'll stop talking to them h: