Originally Posted by
GSRchick714
I didn't say everything should be shared 100% - I said it was fine to have separate accounts. I just think it's odd to have your separate account be a "secret" account. I guess it works for your parents but it definitely isn't something that would work for me. I can't see hiding things like that from my husband.
for all you know he could have something like that ... something he tosses $40 here or $50 there into. you dont know he does it so how can you be offended by it? i'm hearing what you say but i'm telling you right now you would probably be surprised at the number of people who have stashes of money that their SO doesnt know about ... and yes granted i bet the majority of people who do have such stashes are male.
if he came home say tommorow with a brand new bike and you were like where did you get the money for that and he said oh been saving it on the side for a year now ... thats the same thing ... and i bet you it happens someday
