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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted by RicoD
Allison can you start spelling "ridiculousness" correctly? kthxbi....
probably not. :dunno:

since I havent corrected it thus far.
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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 10:59 AM
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If it makes her happy to do it, stfu and take it.

It's not like it's killing you, just an annoyance.

Trust me, you don't want her to hate you
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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by CuppyCake
I know how you feel. Mines the only one in his fam that isnt a blood-sucking leech and uses people for things he needs..and he just needs to get away from his family so he can stop being around all the negativity and rediculousness. At first I didnt notice it nor did it bother me...after a year and a half, it's really hard for me to NOT say anything.

Our relationship progressed pretty quickly as well, so I pretty much know exactly where you are coming from.

If you love your lady then maybe just let it go. Sometimes thats the best thing to do.
Getting away will be the best thing, but that isn't gonna be any time soon unfortunately. She loves spending time here, but we have to go there sometimes to appease her side. She is almost out of debt (by this summer) and needs to buy her own car before she can work on finding an apartment. Once that step is taken, I have a feeling things will start to get better.

She currently sees a psych to help deal with all the bs.

I feel bad every time I say something because it feels like I'm being so negative about her side - but she's told me she feels the same way, just has never had anyone verbalize her thoughts.
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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 11:08 AM
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3 pages of what now? Post pics or :gtfo:
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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 11:10 AM
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Sounds like your gf has some suppressed memories of Uncle Tom doing something durty.
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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 11:11 AM
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She was physically and mentally abused as a child.
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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkStarr
Getting away will be the best thing, but that isn't gonna be any time soon unfortunately. She loves spending time here, but we have to go there sometimes to appease her side. She is almost out of debt (by this summer) and needs to buy her own car before she can work on finding an apartment. Once that step is taken, I have a feeling things will start to get better.

She currently sees a psych to help deal with all the bs.

I feel bad every time I say something because it feels like I'm being so negative about her side - but she's told me she feels the same way, just has never had anyone verbalize her thoughts.
At least she recognizes theres a problem. Or she has a problem.

If she didnt then you could quite possibly have pretty big issues.

Im sure once she can get away from the atmosphere..things will be a million times better for you two

Good luck brah :wiggle:
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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 11:13 AM
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Dude, you're 7 months in and you have all these little irks.... Do you like projects?
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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted by CuppyCake
At least she recognizes theres a problem. Or she has a problem.

If she didnt then you could quite possibly have pretty big issues.

Im sure once she can get away from the atmosphere..things will be a million times better for you two

Good luck brah :wiggle:
It's all good, things will work out and we both recognize that, just gotta get over this little speed bump

Originally Posted by RicoD
Dude, you're 7 months in and you have all these little irks.... Do you like projects?
Nothing wrong with the girl, it's her mom - I don't see what the problem is.

..and yes, I do... ?
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Old Apr 13, 2009 | 11:18 AM
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I'm saying your situation is a project
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