Originally Posted by
CuppyCake
I know how you feel. Mines the only one in his fam that isnt a blood-sucking leech and uses people for things he needs..and he just needs to get away from his family so he can stop being around all the negativity and rediculousness. At first I didnt notice it nor did it bother me...after a year and a half, it's really hard for me to NOT say anything.
Our relationship progressed pretty quickly as well, so I pretty much know exactly where you are coming from.
If you love your lady then maybe just let it go. Sometimes thats the best thing to do.
Getting away will be the best thing, but that isn't gonna be any time soon unfortunately. She loves spending time here, but we have to go there sometimes to appease her side. She is almost out of debt (by this summer) and needs to buy her own car before she can work on finding an apartment. Once that step is taken, I have a feeling things will start to get better.
She currently sees a psych to help deal with all the bs.
I feel bad every time I say something because it feels like I'm being so negative about her side - but she's told me she feels the same way, just has never had anyone verbalize her thoughts.