Originally Posted by DarkStarr

Getting away will be the best thing, but that isn't gonna be any time soon unfortunately. She loves spending time here, but we have to go there sometimes to appease her side. She is almost out of debt (by this summer) and needs to buy her own car before she can work on finding an apartment. Once that step is taken, I have a feeling things will start to get better.

She currently sees a psych to help deal with all the bs.

I feel bad every time I say something because it feels like I'm being so negative about her side - but she's told me she feels the same way, just has never had anyone verbalize her thoughts.