Love or Lost Love?
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Love or Lost Love?
Well subject says it all...How many of you (guys or gals) have been in love or have lost their loved one?? (boyfriend, girlfriend)
Well I really was in love at a young age, for some it is hard to believe that i was in "love" but i knew it was love and would never let her go..(16) I knew this girl for 3 years..and finally asked her out..we went out for 9months and i took a trip with friends to snow board up in flag for a 6days..well i came back on a Sunday (remember time and date) and called her to say hey ..well not even 5minutes into the convo she broke up with me for NO reason..just "hey we need to see other people"... I broke down and was speechless....I usually try to avoid Xs only for feelings not go come up again..well i couldnt with her I HAD to talk to and stuff..well we kept doing things (friends with benefits) for about 5months through out that time i was depressed though..Later on I find out she has had a Boyfriend ever since Friday of that sunday that she broke up with me...and has been using me for fun...or in her words she didnt want to hurt me more ..well i was screwed and lost it and become MORE depressed, thing that pisses me off is that she told my BEST FRIENDS that she still loved me..but didnt know what to do....now its been 4 years and i still think about it and it hurts..I never look at a girl in the same way..I cant fall in "love" with a girl..im too scared and just keep hiding my feelings..It really sucks because i have girls that want to be with me but i just cant have a "relationship"..Sad thing is..I still talk to this girl only because she says we're Best friends forever..But im in so much pain with her how can we be best friends?....eh!..sorry for such a long post guys..just gotta relieve myself at times....
...So yea, just wondering if any of you been through this and how did you take care of it ...so yea thanks for reading..
later
Well I really was in love at a young age, for some it is hard to believe that i was in "love" but i knew it was love and would never let her go..(16) I knew this girl for 3 years..and finally asked her out..we went out for 9months and i took a trip with friends to snow board up in flag for a 6days..well i came back on a Sunday (remember time and date) and called her to say hey ..well not even 5minutes into the convo she broke up with me for NO reason..just "hey we need to see other people"... I broke down and was speechless....I usually try to avoid Xs only for feelings not go come up again..well i couldnt with her I HAD to talk to and stuff..well we kept doing things (friends with benefits) for about 5months through out that time i was depressed though..Later on I find out she has had a Boyfriend ever since Friday of that sunday that she broke up with me...and has been using me for fun...or in her words she didnt want to hurt me more ..well i was screwed and lost it and become MORE depressed, thing that pisses me off is that she told my BEST FRIENDS that she still loved me..but didnt know what to do....now its been 4 years and i still think about it and it hurts..I never look at a girl in the same way..I cant fall in "love" with a girl..im too scared and just keep hiding my feelings..It really sucks because i have girls that want to be with me but i just cant have a "relationship"..Sad thing is..I still talk to this girl only because she says we're Best friends forever..But im in so much pain with her how can we be best friends?....eh!..sorry for such a long post guys..just gotta relieve myself at times....
...So yea, just wondering if any of you been through this and how did you take care of it ...so yea thanks for reading..later
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ive been in love before, and still love him, but now hes married with a kid....2 months after we broke up...so yeah that broke my heart....once you find the right person everything will fall into place... ya know..
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I was in love with a girl I had ben seeing for over a year and still to this day I would be back with her if the opportunity arose, but I messed it all up.
I thought I was in love with the one I married but looking back I am not so sure it was love.
I thought I was in love with the one I married but looking back I am not so sure it was love.
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there used to be this girl that i basically fell in love with. She was drop dead gorges, to me atleast. I mean, everytime i looked at her, man, i could feel my heart skip a beat. Just lookin into her eyes, oh god that gave my a quiver-in a good way. So we talked, chilled all that good stuff, until her fam decides to go out of town for a while. Last time i saw her was in july, 2002. & i found out her parents got her engaged (arranged by parents; typical indian thing). So i hear about this in august. I say to my self, i will be ok, Untill new years night, which was when i saw her again. just as i am almost forgoting about her, the second, litterally, the second i see her, all those feelings came back, and im like, crap. man, this may sound corny, but i cant get her out of my head, and im goin crazy. Worst part is, is that her family is famly friends with my family. but man, i when i used to see her face, god, her eyeswould be the first thing that would get my attention, i used to make poems, that actully made sence,
and etc. So theres my pathetic little story, just thought i could share it. Thanks.
and etc. So theres my pathetic little story, just thought i could share it. Thanks.
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From: Iwakuni, Japan. And where ever the Marine Corps sends me
you know its a good thing i saw this thread im in a kind of tought situation right now you see the last time i went home i fell in love with a girl back home and i had to leave because im in the military and i had orders to go to japan and know there going to send me to korea and that just screwed everthing up because i was trying to go home and see her now they might not let me go home ne advice i mean this is a really really long distance relationship and yes it sucks for both of us ...... i dont know i just wanted to see if n-e 1 had any advice for me because all i can do is think of her and the job that i do at times i need full concentration on my work and i really do love this girl dont have to respond but just lookin for some advice here
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There's this girl at school. I know we both know each other exists. Sometimes we make inadvertant eye contact. The problem is I don't know if she likes me or is somewhat repulsed by me. I was leaning against the wall in the lobby of the student center/food court eating a twinkie 
h: when she walked by carrying a bag of books (I guess she had just bought). She went past and turned left, down a pretty much dead end corridor (I assume). She came back and walked right in front of me. She then went into the science building where we both had our next class, the same class.
Hmm... I hate these games because I never know if I'm thinking with my other head or it's really what I think it is.
h: when she walked by carrying a bag of books (I guess she had just bought). She went past and turned left, down a pretty much dead end corridor (I assume). She came back and walked right in front of me. She then went into the science building where we both had our next class, the same class. Hmm... I hate these games because I never know if I'm thinking with my other head or it's really what I think it is.