you know its a good thing i saw this thread im in a kind of tought situation right now you see the last time i went home i fell in love with a girl back home and i had to leave because im in the military and i had orders to go to japan and know there going to send me to korea and that just screwed everthing up because i was trying to go home and see her now they might not let me go home ne advice i mean this is a really really long distance relationship and yes it sucks for both of us ...... i dont know i just wanted to see if n-e 1 had any advice for me because all i can do is think of her and the job that i do at times i need full concentration on my work and i really do love this girl dont have to respond but just lookin for some advice here