Love or Lost Love?
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i just recently met a phenomenal girl.. beautiful by all counts. every damn time she's out in public, she gets hit on by all kinds, no joke. but she's alot more than looks, i realize that, i don't think most guys that hit on her do. they're just looking to tap the ass of a gorgeous girl..
anyway, i met her through my ex.. they used to be good friends.. no more since my ex found out we've been talking.
she's been on vacation in florida w/ family and we've talked every night since. in fact, she bought a cell phone before her trip so we could stay in communication. (the cell phone guy that sold her the phone kept calling her actually; just an example of what she deals with quite often)..
we've pretty much opened up our souls to each other. we mesh perfectly..
what's the problem?
- she just recently broke up with her fiancee (yes, she was engaged).
- she was friends with my ex, so she's apprehensive about getting seriously involved (even tho we pretty much already are). her recent long relationship also doesn't help..
- she has a binding contract w/ a company for a scholarship. she has to work for them for 3 years after her graduation, otherwise she loses $6k. why's this a problem? it means most likely she's off to maryland.. far from me.
sucks..
anyway, i met her through my ex.. they used to be good friends.. no more since my ex found out we've been talking.
she's been on vacation in florida w/ family and we've talked every night since. in fact, she bought a cell phone before her trip so we could stay in communication. (the cell phone guy that sold her the phone kept calling her actually; just an example of what she deals with quite often)..
we've pretty much opened up our souls to each other. we mesh perfectly..
what's the problem?
- she just recently broke up with her fiancee (yes, she was engaged).
- she was friends with my ex, so she's apprehensive about getting seriously involved (even tho we pretty much already are). her recent long relationship also doesn't help..
- she has a binding contract w/ a company for a scholarship. she has to work for them for 3 years after her graduation, otherwise she loses $6k. why's this a problem? it means most likely she's off to maryland.. far from me.
sucks..
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I've been crazy about a girl for a long time now...we've been good friends and all that good stuff. Basically, I didn't think she had the same feelings for me as I have for her, so I encouraged her to date a guy who I thought she'd be happy with. Well, I found out that she did have the same feelings and was waiting for me to make the first move. But now she's been in a relationship for 2 years with the guy I encouraged her to date, it doesn't seem like she's too happy, and now I can't do anything about it...
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Originally posted by dlh1999
I've been crazy about a girl for a long time now...we've been good friends and all that good stuff. Basically, I didn't think she had the same feelings for me as I have for her, so I encouraged her to date a guy who I thought she'd be happy with. Well, I found out that she did have the same feelings and was waiting for me to make the first move. But now she's been in a relationship for 2 years with the guy I encouraged her to date, it doesn't seem like she's too happy, and now I can't do anything about it...
I've been crazy about a girl for a long time now...we've been good friends and all that good stuff. Basically, I didn't think she had the same feelings for me as I have for her, so I encouraged her to date a guy who I thought she'd be happy with. Well, I found out that she did have the same feelings and was waiting for me to make the first move. But now she's been in a relationship for 2 years with the guy I encouraged her to date, it doesn't seem like she's too happy, and now I can't do anything about it...
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Originally posted by dlh1999
I've been crazy about a girl for a long time now...we've been good friends and all that good stuff. Basically, I didn't think she had the same feelings for me as I have for her, so I encouraged her to date a guy who I thought she'd be happy with. Well, I found out that she did have the same feelings and was waiting for me to make the first move. But now she's been in a relationship for 2 years with the guy I encouraged her to date, it doesn't seem like she's too happy, and now I can't do anything about it...
that hapened to me a while back too but we just decided to be freinds now she's my best freind
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Originally posted by dlh1999
I've been crazy about a girl for a long time now...we've been good friends and all that good stuff. Basically, I didn't think she had the same feelings for me as I have for her, so I encouraged her to date a guy who I thought she'd be happy with. Well, I found out that she did have the same feelings and was waiting for me to make the first move. But now she's been in a relationship for 2 years with the guy I encouraged her to date, it doesn't seem like she's too happy, and now I can't do anything about it...
that hapened to me a while back too but we just decided to be freinds now she's my best freind
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Hey man I know how it feels, I felt like that with my first girlfriend. But now I found someone new, and I really am truley in love with this girl, and I know she feels the same way about me. I care about her so much, I think about her all of the time. There's not a minute that goes by where I don't think about her. Ever since the first day she's told me she liked me and fell in love with me, I felt the same way about her. And I am so positive that I would do anything for this girl. She's gave me hope again to believe that there is a need to care for someone else because after my first g/f which was over 2 years ago and after we broke up, I haven't gone out with anyone in over 2 years until now.
I know that we've only been together for a month but I know that deep in my heart she will always be apart of me. For one reason I received my first kiss from my present girlfriend that I have now. My first giflrfiriend and I were just friends and just held hands and never kissed just like slite pecks on the lips and the cheeks and stuff like that. But yeah I love my girl Mayra so much, I would do anything for her.
I know that we've only been together for a month but I know that deep in my heart she will always be apart of me. For one reason I received my first kiss from my present girlfriend that I have now. My first giflrfiriend and I were just friends and just held hands and never kissed just like slite pecks on the lips and the cheeks and stuff like that. But yeah I love my girl Mayra so much, I would do anything for her.
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From: Charlotte,NC
Originally posted by Singhg83
there used to be this girl that i basically fell in love with. She was drop dead gorges, to me atleast. I mean, everytime i looked at her, man, i could feel my heart skip a beat. Just lookin into her eyes, oh god that gave my a quiver-in a good way. So we talked, chilled all that good stuff, until her fam decides to go out of town for a while. Last time i saw her was in july, 2002. & i found out her parents got her engaged (arranged by parents; typical indian thing). So i hear about this in august. I say to my self, i will be ok, Untill new years night, which was when i saw her again. just as i am almost forgoting about her, the second, litterally, the second i see her, all those feelings came back, and im like, crap. man, this may sound corny, but i cant get her out of my head, and im goin crazy. Worst part is, is that her family is famly friends with my family. but man, i when i used to see her face, god, her eyeswould be the first thing that would get my attention, i used to make poems, that actully made sence,
and etc. So theres my pathetic little story, just thought i could share it. Thanks.
there used to be this girl that i basically fell in love with. She was drop dead gorges, to me atleast. I mean, everytime i looked at her, man, i could feel my heart skip a beat. Just lookin into her eyes, oh god that gave my a quiver-in a good way. So we talked, chilled all that good stuff, until her fam decides to go out of town for a while. Last time i saw her was in july, 2002. & i found out her parents got her engaged (arranged by parents; typical indian thing). So i hear about this in august. I say to my self, i will be ok, Untill new years night, which was when i saw her again. just as i am almost forgoting about her, the second, litterally, the second i see her, all those feelings came back, and im like, crap. man, this may sound corny, but i cant get her out of my head, and im goin crazy. Worst part is, is that her family is famly friends with my family. but man, i when i used to see her face, god, her eyeswould be the first thing that would get my attention, i used to make poems, that actully made sence,
and etc. So theres my pathetic little story, just thought i could share it. Thanks.
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From: Charlotte,NC
Originally posted by Singhg83
Dont you hate when that happens though, you see a beutiful woman and you think she is checkin you out, so you make your move, and then she was like, "um, Like i have a boy friend."
Dont you hate when that happens though, you see a beutiful woman and you think she is checkin you out, so you make your move, and then she was like, "um, Like i have a boy friend."
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"yeah or u see a woman that u like or whatever and u see other guys cheking her out it makes me so mad"-FLAT_LINER
Yea, and you know those guys just wana get into her pants.
Damn that makes me mad
Yea, and you know those guys just wana get into her pants.
Damn that makes me mad
Ridin Dirty
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From: Charlotte,NC
Originally posted by Singhg83
"yeah or u see a woman that u like or whatever and u see other guys cheking her out it makes me so mad"-FLAT_LINER
Yea, and you know those guys just wana get into her pants.
Damn that makes me mad
"yeah or u see a woman that u like or whatever and u see other guys cheking her out it makes me so mad"-FLAT_LINER
Yea, and you know those guys just wana get into her pants.
Damn that makes me mad