Destination Weddings....
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From: Golden, CO
Definitely tell them it's too expensive for you ($4,000 for the two of you? That's a car, son!). Is there no way you could find a cheaper place nearby to stay? It sounds like you still want to go, just not at this price. There certainly shouldn't be a requirement that you stay at the same place.
I'M SO JDM, I HAVE SARS
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From: badalandbad
what everyone said. this has to be the most ridiculous thing i have ever heard.
she is trying to scam her own friends so she can cop a free ticket to her wedding. holy shit!! i hope u don't budge under pressure and actually go.
she at least be fucking drop dead gorgeous for being this anal
she is trying to scam her own friends so she can cop a free ticket to her wedding. holy shit!! i hope u don't budge under pressure and actually go.
she at least be fucking drop dead gorgeous for being this anal
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From: Bay Area, CA
I'm assuming that if you and your gf are in the bridal party, you must be pretty close friends. If that's the case, you probably don't want to call her out in a negative way. Just bow out as nicely as possible and tell her you'll make it up to them when they get back. When is the wedding BTW? You probably don't want to wait too long so that she can replace you.
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then gonna hit up a few other countries while im there.
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Some of you guys either have some fucking cheap friends or you're way to generous...
No way I'd spend a large amount of money to go to someones wedding.... they should provide that shit, if they can't, I'll see them when they get back with a gift
No way I'd spend a large amount of money to go to someones wedding.... they should provide that shit, if they can't, I'll see them when they get back with a gift
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From: Held hostage :o
She should just plan a local ceremony and go to that resort for their honeymoon. Even after pulling that kind of stunt, I probably wouldn't go. :shrug:
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We got this
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From: NYC
I'm assuming that if you and your gf are in the bridal party, you must be pretty close friends. If that's the case, you probably don't want to call her out in a negative way. Just bow out as nicely as possible and tell her you'll make it up to them when they get back. When is the wedding BTW? You probably don't want to wait too long so that she can replace you.
h::bowrofl: Best advice in this thread.