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Here's what you do. Bring your ipod and some portable speakers. Play "Souldja Boy" and do the dance. If she does the dance with you, it's on.
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haha... she is def. not a lesbo.
I dunno about that whole "one of the girls" thing. See, we don't really have too many friends in common. I remember a big issue for me with some girls was the fact that I couldn't simply hang out with them with my friends. Maybe she's making sure that wasn't an issue?
eh... i don't fucking know. I'll try laying off for a little while.
and RE: hitting on her friends... that's interesting, I was totally thinking about that while we were at the bar. It seemed like she was constantly checking on me... making sure i wasn't uncomfortable or something. I'm not worried if she is putting me through the paces... I get along with everyone.
I dunno about that whole "one of the girls" thing. See, we don't really have too many friends in common. I remember a big issue for me with some girls was the fact that I couldn't simply hang out with them with my friends. Maybe she's making sure that wasn't an issue?
eh... i don't fucking know. I'll try laying off for a little while.
and RE: hitting on her friends... that's interesting, I was totally thinking about that while we were at the bar. It seemed like she was constantly checking on me... making sure i wasn't uncomfortable or something. I'm not worried if she is putting me through the paces... I get along with everyone.
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Once in the friend zone, always in the friend zone...move on.
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From what I understand, if a woman likes you (that way) you'll be able to tell. If you think you're getting mixed signals than my guess would be she doesn't.
I can't speak from experience, keep in mind, but apparently some women will keep a guy in the friend zone, even if she's interested in him sexually, because she's waiting or holding out for better. If that doesn't happen, she then thinks she has a decent guy to "fall back on".
If I ever believed a woman thought of me in that way, I would probably cut ties with her, that's just me.
I can't speak from experience, keep in mind, but apparently some women will keep a guy in the friend zone, even if she's interested in him sexually, because she's waiting or holding out for better. If that doesn't happen, she then thinks she has a decent guy to "fall back on".
If I ever believed a woman thought of me in that way, I would probably cut ties with her, that's just me.
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I can't speak from experience, keep in mind, but apparently some women will keep a guy in the friend zone, even if she's interested in him sexually, because she's waiting or holding out for better. If that doesn't happen, she then thinks she has a decent guy to "fall back on".
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and RE: hitting on her friends... that's interesting, I was totally thinking about that while we were at the bar. It seemed like she was constantly checking on me... making sure i wasn't uncomfortable or something. I'm not worried if she is putting me through the paces... I get along with everyone.
If one of her friends finds you charming, the friend will ask her about you. If she is interested in you, the prospect of one of her friends sniping you away will give her motivation to give you a clear "I want you" signal.
I can't speak from experience, keep in mind, but apparently some women will keep a guy in the friend zone, even if she's interested in him sexually, because she's waiting or holding out for better. If that doesn't happen, she then thinks she has a decent guy to "fall back on".
If I ever believed a woman thought of me in that way, I would probably cut ties with her, that's just me.
If I ever believed a woman thought of me in that way, I would probably cut ties with her, that's just me.
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The next time you are out with all her friends, at the very least pay more attention to at least 2-3 of her friends more than you do her. I'm not saying ignore her completely. Acknowledge her, but definitely pay more attention to one of her "good" friends.
If one of her friends finds you charming, the friend will ask her about you. If she is interested in you, the prospect of one of her friends sniping you away will give her motivation to give you a clear "I want you" signal.
If one of her friends finds you charming, the friend will ask her about you. If she is interested in you, the prospect of one of her friends sniping you away will give her motivation to give you a clear "I want you" signal.