If you can't stand being friends, go for it. you'll just drag your balls on the ground until it becomes an open wound if you keep yourself wondering.

 

There's absolutely nothing here. I don't see a thing where he'd believe that she's showing signs. She won't even take a drink, so what's he to lay on the line?


Fact is, he's jumping at every opportunity to hang out with her. You gotta play the game too, make her work for your attention. When you have plans without her, if you leave her alone, trust me ... she'll go nuts.

 

thanks for the advice everyone. I think she's showing signs as she is really flirty with me, and constantly saying that she wants to spend lots of time with me, and then profusely apologizing if something doesn't happen.

I wouldn't say i'm jumping out of the water at every opportunity to hang out with her, it's just that I haven't seen her in like a month (that whole timing thing, again), and i really wanted to see her.

 

What I'd do ...

Take it for what it is. No pressure. If something happens, it will ... just don't force the issue because who knows what she's thinking.

 

I picked up on these two paragraphs.

IMHO

1. She thinks of you as just one of the "girls" and hence you are in the friend zone. This is why she invited you out on a "girls" night.

2. RE: The beer situation. She won't take a beer from a guy, but she takes one from a chick. Combined that the night was an all girls night (except for you), have you ever thought that this chick could be a lesbian? You're the lesbian version of a (pardon the term) *** hag.

In all seriousness...

If you want to find out if she's into you, the next time she invites you out on what appears to be a "girls" night you have to aggressively hit on every single one of her friends. If she gets jealous, it could be the catalyst of you two getting together.

If every girl turns you down, then you know the pack of em are lesbians. Even though you won't get any, hanging out with a pack of hawt lesbians isn't a bad thing. Maybe they'll even let you watch.

 

drews family is full of smart men

 

I think her reason about not wanting to drink is completley legitimate. I've been asked to bars tons of time.. but decline because I'm just not in to that shit anymore.

 

Drew is correct. Stop hanging out with her as much

 

Agreed.

Once you stop paying attention to her, she'll start thinking ":wtf:why is he not paying attention me like he used to?"

Next thing you know, she'll be the one actively seeking you out (that is if she isn't a lesbian).

 

Easy way to test friend zone:

Next time you're walking down the street, offer her your arm.

If she takes it she sees you as potential.

If no - GG