I picked up on these two paragraphs.
Originally Posted by
Scott Dodge
Tonight, she invited me out with all her friends (all girls). It was alot of fun... went to a bar with open mic, etc. I keep wondering if she is just putting me through the paces... seeing if I can get along with the people that she spends alot of time with.
Now, tonight, I offered to buy her a beer, and she declined. I went to go piss, and when I get back, I see her best friend (a girl) getting her a beer. I'm just fucking confused because she is always inviting me out and such, and always flirting, but she seems reluctant to subtle moves.
IMHO
1. She thinks of you as just one of the "girls" and hence you are in the friend zone. This is why she invited you out on a "girls" night.
2. RE: The beer situation. She won't take a beer from a guy, but she takes one from a chick. Combined that the night was an all girls night (except for you), have you ever thought that this chick could be a lesbian? You're the lesbian version of a (pardon the term) *** hag.
In all seriousness...
If you want to find out if she's into you, the next time she invites you out on what appears to be a "girls" night you have to aggressively hit on every single one of her friends. If she gets jealous, it could be the catalyst of you two getting together.
If every girl turns you down, then you know the pack of em are lesbians. Even though you won't get any, hanging out with a pack of hawt lesbians isn't a bad thing. Maybe they'll even let you watch.