Originally Posted by
Scott Dodge
and RE: hitting on her friends... that's interesting, I was totally thinking about that while we were at the bar. It seemed like she was constantly checking on me... making sure i wasn't uncomfortable or something. I'm not worried if she is putting me through the paces... I get along with everyone.
The next time you are out with all her friends, at the very least pay more attention to at least 2-3 of her friends more than you do her. I'm not saying ignore her completely. Acknowledge her, but definitely pay more attention to one of her "good" friends.
If one of her friends finds you charming, the friend will ask her about you. If she is interested in you, the prospect of one of her friends sniping you away will give her motivation to give you a clear "I want you" signal.
Originally Posted by
A-series
I can't speak from experience, keep in mind, but apparently some women will keep a guy in the friend zone, even if she's interested in him sexually, because she's waiting or holding out for better. If that doesn't happen, she then thinks she has a decent guy to "fall back on".
If I ever believed a woman thought of me in that way, I would probably cut ties with her, that's just me.
Good advice. If you even get the slightest feeling that she is doing this to you, walk away. You don't need to deal with that BS.