Wait you'd go for a chick that's with another dude? :ugh: That's effed up...

 

I think that is conditional. If the guy is a real asshole and doesn't deserve her then I don't think there's anything wrong with trying to make her see that she could do a whole lot better. However, if she's happy with the guy and they're in a working relationship, you should stay in the friend zone (and just pray for a possible rebound someday).

 

agreed, this will end badly me thinks

 

Yeah i did'nt know she was w/ someone else. You need to leave it be. I've been on both sides of this and it never works
Just find someone else

 

I meant i tried that with another girl but she was superficial.

 

They aren't right for each other and it will end.

I am willing to be friends with her because that is what she is lookng for. someone reliable that listens and with whom she can be herself. Seems the best plan for now.

 

Stop acting like a little bitch :slap:

If you always listen to her problems and act too much like a friend, you will be stuck in the friend zone forever. You'll be that "like a brother to me" guy. You don't want that.

However, you said you've been friends for a long time so maybe it is too late? I say make a move and see what happens. Better to find out sooner than to wait a long time only to get let down. If it doesn't work out, oh well. Womens are everywhere. Either way, good luck.

 

The juice is woth the squeeze and I am not afraid to fail. May as well go all in.

 

Be a gentleman, just wait and mind your own business, and at the same test out how her personality is.

If she's still dating someone else, leave her be on her own. Let her find her own reasons to break up. Don't be a part of it.
If you make a move on her now, and she goes for it (meaning seeing you and that other guy at the same time), that speaks a lot about her, no?

 

she probably sucks in bed :rofl: