i thought you thought i was cool

 

I am just playing it cool because I wouldn't want the same situation to happen to me. As much as I want to help the process along, it will destruct on its own.

No pictures.

 

1) If she's still talkin to the dude, leave her alone.

2) If she's free, just get balls and ask her out (something she likes to do since you've known her this long)

3) If she says yes then everything worked out good, she says no then get over it and atleast you didn't waste your time wondering "what if"

4) Posting pics has nothing to do with respect unless they're nudez so post some.

 

you r in from what ive read. she is interested. as long as u both respect each other seems things r a go. she will let u know when the time is right.

 

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Or at least be consistent with the uses.

My now ex and I started talking and I found out she was taken by some dude, was living with him and everything so we went to dinner and a movie as friends. She came over like everyday, surprised me with crap and then 5 days after meeting her, she broke it off with her boyfriend at the time, 2 days later we hooked up, about 13 months later I broke it off.

 

yeah it will take its natural course, no need to rush it

 

Sounds like you already made up your mind.

The only way you can pull off the whole good listener schtick without ending up in the friend zone is to be the good listener who makes it patently obvious he is listening because he wants some tang.

Also when the topic of bf comes up your only response can be "what's that got to do with me?"

Otherwise just hang out with her, she'll either come around or not. The shit like this is always a low percentage shot.

 

Agreed, that is why I won't put all my eggs in one basket. I went out with this different girl yesterday for a day of reading / talking. It took me 15 minutes or so to get bored. It is all a numbers game.

 

^^he speaks the truth. if you're lending an ear, listening to all her relationship BS and giving your shoulder for her to lean on, I think you've misinterpreted the situation. this may already have you in the friend zone. if you two just had fun getting to know each other and the boyfriend talk doesn't come up, then proceed forward, slowly and let her know her bf isn't worth her time.