Simple enough, don't play games. I'm sure she plays games with you... do you like it? No. Do you see right through it? Of course you do.

Sit down and explain exactly how you feel. Don't point fingers, don't push her buttons; just express yourself, the problems, what you don't like, and what you see as being the only solution at this time - breaking it off. Women always complain that men don't express their feelings well. Put that in her face and tell her exactly what you've said here, edited to be a little less brash, of course.

If she can't take it then you know what you have to do. She might respond saying that she's had it too and then you have a mutual agreement. And, she might go nuts and try to hack your ear off. Then you also know what you have to do - get a bigger knife. h: Consider even writing it down and reading it when you talk to her. I know my head starts to swim when I get in situations like that and it helps to have it all drawn out created at a time when your mind was solid and you weren't under the pressure of the situation.

GL dude, I don't envy you...

Credentials: been married for 6 years, only 26 years old

 

i tried talking to her... and i dun play around... my attitude is tht i tell her things straight up... only thing abt me is tht i make lil mistakes here and there, and she knows tht ever since we got together... but it seems tht she can't take it no more... she also used to TRY to do things i like, but now, it's more like we do things tht SHE likes, like shopping.. i've been wanting to go snowboarding, go-carts, etc, but all she wants to do is shopping..

btw, i'm with her almost 24 hrs a day... same school, program, and almost the same classes... is it cos we spend too much time together?

btw, she always say tht i dun take care of her well.. wtf? i do practically everything, drive her to and from school, and all the things i mentioned above... i also spent tons of money on gifts for valentine's day, b-days, etc... and worst thing is, if we get in a fight, she'll use all the bad things i did in the past against me, and say tht i never "made up" for those "hurtful moments"... who the hell does she think she is??

 

Show her this thread?

Naw really tell her exactly what you told us. She can't work on the problems if she doesn't know they exist. Try to work it out.... maybe you could start off by asking her if there's anything she would like you to work on, then regardless of the answer tell her that you have some pointers for her too.
And try to spend more time apart.

It's either that or start all over again with a stranger and go through all the issues of a break up n' shit.

 

Actually I think that because you're around her so much (same classes) that you're at each other's throats. Find a way to get breathing room.

 

That is what I was going to say. You need space.

 

find a friends house to stay at a couple of weeks
Don't say nothing just leave
come back in a couple weeks and tell her how you feel...

 

im kinda in the same situation as you are, but i just kicked her out and made her go back to her parents, we've been together on and off for4.5 years and last night she went to a hotel party and stayed there in a room..........needles to say i called her a whore and told her to leave






sorry for bitching in your thread

 

Bang her best friend and make sure your gf walks in on you while hitting her IDB.

That should just about take care of it

 

Do you live in an apartment? if so how long till the lease is up? If soon then get a uhaul and bounce, stop by when she's getting home and tell her it's over, from a 5mph roll

 

Stick it from behind and grab the hair.
Tell her that her sister was better.
Try to hold on.

It will end naturally.