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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 08:37 AM
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If the soccer coach put his hands on the 15 year old girl, you need to call the police.
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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 08:40 AM
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You should definitely speak to her older sister and let her know what her little sister is going through. Obviously something must be wrong in that fam because the little sister cant approach them to tell them whats going on.

The soccor coach should be in jail right now for Sexually abusing a minor.
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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 09:59 AM
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Rizzle thanks for the help, gonna try to get ahold of the older sister.
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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 10:01 AM
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she must be H 0 T !11
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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by GotJDM?
she must be H 0 T !11
Go play in traffic.
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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 12:53 PM
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Random post because there is no ****ing way I am going to waste my time reading that book when it is obvious anything said on a forum about your multitudes of ****ed up problems isn't gonna be worth a shit anyways.

Grow up and make a decision on what to do on your own and stick with it.
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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 12:56 PM
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On second thought I read it after all and you are talking about the molesting of a child.

Hey guy wake up and report this shit already. Are you taking stupid pills or something?

Nothing personal really but that is one of those gimme situations where there is only one thing you can do.
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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 12:58 PM
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the older sister would never be mad at you for telling her, just think about it, if someone told you someone was messing with you younger sister, who would you be mad at the messenger or the accused, all i konw is if someone did anything to my sister and i'd found out my bat would prolly find it's way into their windsheild, and then possibly if they bitch about it, their face
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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 01:00 PM
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also, this girl may be overly flirty with people.... not saying she is a alut or snything, just tell her to evaluate how she acts around certain guys.... and try to get the point across at how their minds work
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Old Mar 4, 2005 | 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by benjamin
If the soccer coach put his hands on the 15 year old girl, you need to call the police.
Absolutely correct.
Invite the older sis over and tell her about the incident, and perhaps the mother too.

Keeping this a secret means:
1) The bastard coach who did this to the younger sis gets away with it.
2) The younger sis doesn't get proper counseling.
3) You're stuck with the horrible burden of knowing she was assaulted.

Originally Posted by DRfrank
also, this girl may be overly flirty with people.... not saying she is a alut or snything, just tell her to evaluate how she acts around certain guys.... and try to get the point across at how their minds work
:a: Hold it, now. I think you'd agree that the blame falls squarely on the coach... Given what I've heard in this thread, the coach will likely be charged with Sexual Molestation of a Minor. What the victim did or said is irrelevant in the eyes of the law. The bastard deserves serious prison time for this.

I wouldn't go too far in counselling the victim. After that kind of trauma, I'd turn it over to a professional psychologist who specializes in adolescent abuse.
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