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Originally Posted by KrnHottie02
go about getting over someone. My bf just broke up wiht a few weeks ago, and now its starting to hit. my friend at school said it take bout 3/4 time that u were together to get over someone. That means its going to take me about a year to get over them...(we were serious for 16 months)...is that accurate or just BS...? input, ideas...thanks
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hang out with your friends all the time i would say. get your mind going about other things, that will help out alot. it helped me, but then again i was over my X after about a day and a half lol.
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Originally Posted by KrnHottie02
yeh i dont think its easier for girls..i thought it was easier for guys. Girls wallow and cry and cry about it. Guy go out with their 'boys' and wat not and get over it...thats wat i thought 
and im an over analyzer so im gonna sit and think bout it and wallow some more...
and im an over analyzer so im gonna sit and think bout it and wallow some more...
Maybe it's the guys I hang out with, but it's the opposite. I don't mean this in any sort of negative, sexist, sense, BUT most of the females I know start dating before their ex's do. Most of the guys I know, when coming out of an important relationship, really wait their time before they go back to the "field", and even more so, do it very tenatively and slowly when they start this journey back to being available. Most of the females I know tend to start rebounding between guys and just generally going wild, while the guys are more reserved and tackle their issues before going back out...
Of course, it really could be the people I know. 9 out of 10, the girls I know intimately enough that they share secrets with me have cheated on their current or past boyfriends. Less than half the guys I know have cheated on their girlfriends... Isn't it supposed to be the other way around? :eh:
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Originally Posted by Epoch
Maybe it's the guys I hang out with, but it's the opposite. I don't mean this in any sort of negative, sexist, sense, BUT most of the females I know start dating before their ex's do. Most of the guys I know, when coming out of an important relationship, really wait their time before they go back to the "field", and even more so, do it very tenatively and slowly when they start this journey back to being available. Most of the females I know tend to start rebounding between guys and just generally going wild, while the guys are more reserved and tackle their issues before going back out...
Of course, it really could be the people I know. 9 out of 10, the girls I know intimately enough that they share secrets with me have cheated on their current or past boyfriends. Less than half the guys I know have cheated on their girlfriends... Isn't it supposed to be the other way around? :eh:
Of course, it really could be the people I know. 9 out of 10, the girls I know intimately enough that they share secrets with me have cheated on their current or past boyfriends. Less than half the guys I know have cheated on their girlfriends... Isn't it supposed to be the other way around? :eh:
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Originally Posted by Epoch
Maybe it's the guys I hang out with, but it's the opposite. I don't mean this in any sort of negative, sexist, sense, BUT most of the females I know start dating before their ex's do. Most of the guys I know, when coming out of an important relationship, really wait their time before they go back to the "field", and even more so, do it very tenatively and slowly when they start this journey back to being available. Most of the females I know tend to start rebounding between guys and just generally going wild, while the guys are more reserved and tackle their issues before going back out...
Of course, it really could be the people I know. 9 out of 10, the girls I know intimately enough that they share secrets with me have cheated on their current or past boyfriends. Less than half the guys I know have cheated on their girlfriends... Isn't it supposed to be the other way around? :eh:
Of course, it really could be the people I know. 9 out of 10, the girls I know intimately enough that they share secrets with me have cheated on their current or past boyfriends. Less than half the guys I know have cheated on their girlfriends... Isn't it supposed to be the other way around? :eh:
the sad thing is...that i did cheat on him...it was with a good friend of mine, but i gave into temptation and i messed up. He knows about it, and he still stayed with me. This happened over a year ago, and he stayed w/me for a year after i told him, so im a lil confused somewhat. I guess maybe he couldnt handle it anymore...but idk...hes hurt and i understand. I was cheated on from my previous BF and i was hurt...but i guess its too late now
we're stil talking, but it hurts knowing that im not with him ne more...in the words of a good friend
"Brush ya shouldas off"
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Originally Posted by KrnHottie02
the sad thing is...that i did cheat on him...it was with a good friend of mine, but i gave into temptation and i messed up. He knows about it, and he still stayed with me. This happened over a year ago, and he stayed w/me for a year after i told him, so im a lil confused somewhat. I guess maybe he couldnt handle it anymore...but idk...hes hurt and i understand. I was cheated on from my previous BF and i was hurt...but i guess its too late now we're stil talking, but it hurts knowing that im not with him ne more...
in the words of a good friend
"Brush ya shouldas off"
we're stil talking, but it hurts knowing that im not with him ne more...in the words of a good friend
"Brush ya shouldas off"
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Originally Posted by DaKarMaul
once a cheater, always a cheater.
no people don't change.
no people don't change.
And no, I have never cheated
... The closest I've ever gotten was seeing two girls at once as "friends with benefits" during my college days for like a week or two... One girl is enough trouble for me, and balancing 2 just isn't worth it 
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