What are your thoughts of revealing your insecurities to your S.O.? I’ve always thought that showing your insecurities is not so much of a smart thing because of the vulnerability and the lack of strong self esteem that it shows. Well I guess I am running into that bit of problem right now.

I rarely ever thought of myself as being insecure, whether it is in my physical appearance, intelligence, confidence…whatever; because I hardly give a fuk about what other people think about me. But that seems to be in the past. I am beginning to think twice about the person I actually am sometimes…and frankly, I find myself saying that I am not the person that I’ve built myself up to be.

So here I am, 4 AM, wide awake, and writing my feelings on a Honda board. And don’t take this thread the wrong way, I am not debating on suicide…I am not looking for sympathy…I just want to know your thoughts, or the pros and cons on me revealing my insecurities to my girlfriend.

holla?

 

go to sleep

 

you need to find a new hobby...take up a religion if u don't practice on already...you need to put 'stock' in something worth while, something that would make you feel like you are who you are.....really, i would assume that when you looked at your S.O that you should feel whole, maybe you need time to think about your life for a little bit, maybe even away from your S.O for a bit........




or sleep with a teddy bear

 

First of all, I think everyone has insecurities. And if you've been with her for a long time and feel comfortable with laying them out then I'd say go ahead. My gf knows everything about me and I know everything about her, including insecurities. Of course it opens you up to potential hurt if things go bad but then you know they're saying it just to hurt you.

 

if you trust the wugman, go for it. Only if your relationship is really a serious one though. Otherwise, keep it to yourself. Trust is key.

 

Me and my girl are very, very close in this area. We have both opened up to each other on some very deep levels.

If you and your girl are close like that, I'm talking a serious commitment, then I see no problem with it, and she will respect that side of you.

 

chances are if you guys have been with eachother for a long time, then she alreadys knows them. Your insecurities aften always show when you are with someone you care about because we all let our guard down. The best thing i can say is if your serious about being with her then let her in a little bit. Tell her some that are the most obvious while keeping the worst ones in the closet until you feel that the time is right for everything to come out.

 

well, as long as she is not a psychoitc manipulative bitch (my old one was) she will feel like you are trusting her with a power to hurt you... so she will therefor feel more of a bond

if she is a psychotic manipulative bitch then she will play you and try to hurt you ... i made some worng chocies and she tried to hurt me...

but i dated her best friend and told her to F*uck off

 

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she's already seen your itty bitty teeni weenie, whats the prob? :fawk: