revealing your insecurities?????
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Originally Posted by Tirod
Me and my girl are very, very close in this area. We have both opened up to each other on some very deep levels.
If you and your girl are close like that, I'm talking a serious commitment, then I see no problem with it, and she will respect that side of you.
If you and your girl are close like that, I'm talking a serious commitment, then I see no problem with it, and she will respect that side of you.
alot of people will never do that even after years.
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If you're with someone long enough, you'll know all of their insecurities. My gf knew all of mine, and I knew all of hers. If you're close and open with the other person, its not that hard to figure out what they are sensitive about.
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Whether you tell them or not, your S.O. will pick up on your insecurities. In an ideal situation you would be comfortable enough to address them with each other. Everyone has insecurities; you do, and so does she. Just sit her down and talk to her one on one, and you'll feel 1000000 times better.
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Everyone is insecure about something.
If you can honestly recognize it and put it to words then you are a step ahead of many other people.Recognizing insecurities and freely admitting them allows you the opportunity to work on them. If you reveal them to your S.O. then you can work on them together.
Personally I am sure she is probably already aware of them and has noticed them, but talking to her about them will take your relationship to a new level....make sure you are stable in your relationship before doing this though. Of course if that is one of your insecurities then you got more problems than most
If you can honestly recognize it and put it to words then you are a step ahead of many other people.Recognizing insecurities and freely admitting them allows you the opportunity to work on them. If you reveal them to your S.O. then you can work on them together.
Personally I am sure she is probably already aware of them and has noticed them, but talking to her about them will take your relationship to a new level....make sure you are stable in your relationship before doing this though. Of course if that is one of your insecurities then you got more problems than most
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From: Lll
heh. well, i believe that me and my gf has a solid relationship. but like i said before, ive had VERY little insecurites about myself in the past...so facing this was a little new to me. but ive decided, amongst most of the input here, to talk to my gf about them. :happysad:
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