how should I go about this...
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Originally Posted by antarius
Look for the hottest girl in your class, that doesn't have a boyfriend.
Go talk to her, act like she's "no one". Yes, I said it, be a dick.
Just walk up to her, and talk to her about class or something or other, ask her for a favor (a pen, paper, hold something temporarily, etc) and then after she does, say thanks and be on your way.
She'll be intrigued by why you aren't flopping all over her like every other guy in the world.
After that, make small glances so she notices you (she'll be looking, I'd be willing to bet) and then within the next couple days just strike up a conversation with her, and KEEP COOL.
That's all, simple. Tried and true.
People want what they can't have, even those super hot girls. Just act like you don't notice that they're gorgeous, and they'll be all over you.
This is of course a generalization, but in my experiences; it is true in most cases. However, it's not exactly the best way to meet QUALITY women....
Go talk to her, act like she's "no one". Yes, I said it, be a dick.
Just walk up to her, and talk to her about class or something or other, ask her for a favor (a pen, paper, hold something temporarily, etc) and then after she does, say thanks and be on your way.
She'll be intrigued by why you aren't flopping all over her like every other guy in the world.
After that, make small glances so she notices you (she'll be looking, I'd be willing to bet) and then within the next couple days just strike up a conversation with her, and KEEP COOL.
That's all, simple. Tried and true.
People want what they can't have, even those super hot girls. Just act like you don't notice that they're gorgeous, and they'll be all over you.
This is of course a generalization, but in my experiences; it is true in most cases. However, it's not exactly the best way to meet QUALITY women....
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Originally Posted by WideBodyEK
theres only one problem with your method,..once she obtains your interest,..shes gone
You don't constantly remain a dick and uncaring, that'll drive her away too. But in the beginning, it makes them curious and intrigued by your confidence and how you are "different" than the other guys who come up to her every day saying how gorgeous she is.
You definitely have to make sure to increasingly become more open and up front with her, on how you feel / are attracted to her, or the LACK of compliments will drive her away as well. And then yes, she'd "catch on" and be "gone".
Anyhow, it's not the easiest way to find a quality woman, and it's lame that you have to play games; but it really is necessary sometimes.
