she is out there man. Just stay patient. I know when I had given up finding the girl that suited me perfectly I finally found her

 

I gave up years back... it doesn't bother me anymore. I'd much rather be alone for the right reasons than be with someone for the wrong ones. (Actually thats from an old 80s movie.)

 

That's what's important man... setting your goals and sticking to them. :goodjob: Things have a funny way of workin out, too....


But, I'm on the opposite side of old convention.... Kind of... I think it's a good thing if a woman explores her sexuality and is aware of herself, and if she's slept with a couple guys to figure out herself, so be it. The only thing I have a problem is when a woman goes beyond exploring herself and uses sexuality as a justification of her existence... I like a woman to be dignified and in control of herself, and for my future girl, I literally demand such composure.

Though, virgins have no idea what to do, and thus for me aren't fun... So a delicate balance must be stuck IMO...

Back on topic, 4, and one was a very, very bad :drunk: adventure... :happysad:

 

:werd:

i was a bit of a manwhore awile back...my # is 16. also remember i'm almost twice some of u fukers age (34), so 16 isn't that bad i don't think. :thinking:

then again #16 was almost 2 years ago when we broke up & i've been celibate ever since. :wiggle:

i've dated 3 girls in the 2 years since & slept together w/ all 3, but no sex....i do still "eat @ the y" :naughty:

 

:werd: Everybody tells me that I'm too picky and I'm never gonna find anyone and I should learn to compromise. I'm not compromising on who I will spend the rest of my life with. If I don't find one that I like, then I'm prepared to stay single, I don't want to waste my time with anything less than "perfect" (in my eyes)

 

Finding the perfect woman isn't so much the issue for you guys...its the fact that she probably won't like you :db:



But the truth is, there is no perfect woman. there is no perfect man either. Being with a person you love is being able to accept the things about them and love them all the more because of their "faults" rather then seeing them as negative.

 

I feel exactly the same way. You had such a beatiful way of putting it. Here is what taught me. Ok I was dating this chick for a while back in high shcool and she wanted to have sex so bad but i was like no some many times. I was considering waiting ill marriage back then but still wasnt sure. This is what made my mind for me. She had a twin sister that my buddy was dating. They went ahead and banged. He calls me the next day and is like "Yo man i woke this mourning to go to a pee and my weiner was buringin like hell, my weiner has been hurting bad all day." He get some sort of std from that stupid slut. So yea I am deffinelty waiting till maririage now and hope my wife has done the same.

 

I believe that's one of the criteria of being "perfect". :fawk:

 

You are mistaking the word perfect for idealism. A perfect woman to me is one who shares my tastes, she may not have to share all of them but most is very important.

 

:werd: I feel you dude. She'll come along. like you said..dont stress on finding her