I met another girl, and she is so soooo soooo amazingly cute. Her personality is just amazing. She's so open about things and isn't shy. I really like it when a girl has the fortitude to call someone else a pussy. Thats just great. Here is the deal with this girl. She has been dating this same guy for a year. Today is their anniversary but shes never happy with him. She is always crying and she's always sad and pissed about it. Last night, they broke up. I would love to get with this girl because I wouldn't ever do the shit this guy does. How do you guys think I should move in for the kill?

 

To be honest, I'd keep some distance for now. Still be cool with her as a friend, but don't try to get with her yet. She needs time to chill and figure things out.

You've got to remember, she can either just want to not be serious and date different people or end up going back to her ex. Then, you don't want to end up as her shoulder to cry since that'll usually cockblock you in the future.

 

Guys do not take it well, that's for sure.

IMO, he'll be mad at you in someway or another.

 

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While technically not the same situation, as Deek described you can end up the same way.

 

you know I saw you had replied to this and I was ready for some smart ass comment but thank Deek, thats a good point. :thumbup:

I play ice hockey, and we had made plans sort of to go ice skating this weekend. Perhaps I should put that on hold due to her recent breakup? Or do you think it'll do her some good, even as a friend and she wont think I'm tryin to get my swerve on?

 

he's some punk kid still in high school that lives 100 miles away. He won't do shit.

 

be there for her and go with it. whatever happens happens

 

Be careful bro I just got done with a girl in a similiar situation. She was always upset with him and shit like that. Funny part is she goes back to the ex and not three weeks later finds out he has been sleeping with her pregnant best friend. Thats ****ed. N-e ways I would wait it out for awhile and see how she is doing bout the ex, also don't be shy about badmouthing him to her just don't take it to far. She might not like that.

 

I think you should keep your plans to go ice skating unless she specifically says she doesnt want to go; i think it'll help to ease her mind off her heartache, and it'll give you guys some time to get to know each other better without looking like youre trying to move in.


As someone who is in a similar situation, i know this is gonna sound maybe kinda like a stupid idea, but honesty really works wonders with a girl; wait a while til things calm down with her ex and tell her how you feel about her but say that you dont want to seem like youre taking advantage of her bad situation.

 

I agree, just make sure she doesn't spill her guts about her bf. Otherwise, you'll end up as her shoulder to cry on.