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Originally posted by kaizix
i'm not saying there's anything wrong with the ring. or even that girls like big rings. that's fine, and i hope i can get a ring as nice as this for my girl when it comes to that. but the fact that the ring would make a girl say yes no matter what is not cool with me. i'm sorry i have a bigger dream than just settling for a girl that marries me because i bought her a big ring. but that's just the way i feel.
i'm not saying there's anything wrong with the ring. or even that girls like big rings. that's fine, and i hope i can get a ring as nice as this for my girl when it comes to that. but the fact that the ring would make a girl say yes no matter what is not cool with me. i'm sorry i have a bigger dream than just settling for a girl that marries me because i bought her a big ring. but that's just the way i feel.
if you had come out and said all the from the beginning then everyone would have understood. but to me the questions you were asking her was just setting her up.
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From: PA
Originally posted by kaizix
and i can understand this to a point. i mean, if he's rich, but gets you a cheesy ring, then there's something else to worry about. but if he gets you the best ring he can afford, and it isn't anything special, then the ring should be the basis of the decision. :dunno: maybe my thought process is just skewed.
and i can understand this to a point. i mean, if he's rich, but gets you a cheesy ring, then there's something else to worry about. but if he gets you the best ring he can afford, and it isn't anything special, then the ring should be the basis of the decision. :dunno: maybe my thought process is just skewed.
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Originally posted by DakarM
if you had come out and said all the from the beginning then everyone would have understood. but to me the questions you were asking her was just setting her up.
if you had come out and said all the from the beginning then everyone would have understood. but to me the questions you were asking her was just setting her up.
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From: Location Location
Originally posted by kaizix
maybe i should have worded it differently......i.e. "would the ring be the basis of the decision?"
maybe i should have worded it differently......i.e. "would the ring be the basis of the decision?"
:werd: or would the ring be the only basis of the decision.
but i know right now if I bought any ring with any diamond and I proposed my gf would not accept it.
we are not ready yet.
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Thanks for the compliments on the ring and decision.
It's what I can afford (to an extent), and I know she'll appreciate it.
To each their own is how I look at it. Get what you can afford and try not to go beyond your means. She will appreciate what you show her on that day if you chose whole heartedly.
It's what I can afford (to an extent), and I know she'll appreciate it.
To each their own is how I look at it. Get what you can afford and try not to go beyond your means. She will appreciate what you show her on that day if you chose whole heartedly.
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From: PA
Originally posted by kaizix
so the nicer the ring, the more sure you are you want to marry the person?
so the nicer the ring, the more sure you are you want to marry the person?
good luck civicex! do something cute and romantic when you do propose
my one friends fiance had his friends spy on them and take pictures when he proposed, it was damn cute!