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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 06:53 AM
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Just let things happen naturally. She was the one who told you to be platonic, so in my mind it's up to her if she wants to move in a different direction. It doesn't sound like you "must have her," so I wouldn't risk making things awkward by asking her/making a move right now.

Girls will totally just hang out in the car just to talk. They operate on a different wavelength with those types of signals than men do. I think she just sees you as a cool guy who is fun to talk to. If she is interested, she'll let you know.
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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 06:57 AM
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Pics dude...you met online so dont act you dont have any readily available.
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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted by å
you waited too long to make your move... 2nd, 3rd date latest should be making a move...

i second the advice of just asking her straight up now...
Originally Posted by CRAIGHIMSELF
Here's the thing, and I agree with a previous post, I think it's in your head dude. Had you just been on a date with here one-on-one then I get it but you were just hanging out with friends. Your ego wants that boost of it being more than just friends. You would know damn right if she was "into" you by now. Keep searching amigo, this aint the juan.

And for the real question - where are the mother fucking pics?
Originally Posted by AP2
Fuck man, if you're being this insecure and analytical she can surely sense it. Maybe you should date men.
Maybe i'm not explaining this well... I do not want to get with her! I mean she's really cool and all but I do not want her as a GF or even a FF. I do not care apart from just knowing for the sake of knowing. I am not trying to get with her, i never tried to get with her and i do not care if i never get with her.


Originally Posted by JGordon
Just let things happen naturally. She was the one who told you to be platonic, so in my mind it's up to her if she wants to move in a different direction. It doesn't sound like you "must have her," so I wouldn't risk making things awkward by asking her/making a move right now.

Girls will totally just hang out in the car just to talk. They operate on a different wavelength with those types of signals than men do. I think she just sees you as a cool guy who is fun to talk to. If she is interested, she'll let you know.
That's the thing... i think this was her way of letting me know. I mean seriously she stayed in my car for a long time. and at the end we weren't even talking it just seemed like she wanted more.

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Originally Posted by white_n_slow
leave it be. If she wants you she'll make it clear soon enough. Otherwise, why have an awkward, embarrassing scene when you could just chill and enjoy the friendzone?
you are right... that's what i'll do and next time i see her i'll see how it goes.
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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 07:32 AM
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I love how you're avoiding the picture requests. You're a homo and its probably a dude.
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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 07:45 AM
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Originally Posted by CRAIGHIMSELF
I love how you're avoiding the picture requests. You're a homo and its probably a dude.
I'll try to fin her pis again... but i think i already posted one.
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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 08:03 AM
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let her make it more obvious before you mess something up o:
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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted by Tark
I'll try to fin her pis again... but i think i already posted one.
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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 08:10 AM
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nelsons on a roll :rofl:
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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 08:35 AM
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don't let the balls touch.
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Old Feb 2, 2011 | 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Nelson
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Boooooo... that's not cool

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Originally Posted by CRAIGHIMSELF
I love how you're avoiding the picture requests. You're a homo and its probably a dude.


This is the only pic i have of her.
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