you waited too long to make your move... 2nd, 3rd date latest should be making a move...
i second the advice of just asking her straight up now...
Originally Posted by
CRAIGHIMSELF
Here's the thing, and I agree with a previous post, I think it's in your head dude. Had you just been on a date with here one-on-one then I get it but you were just hanging out with friends. Your ego wants that boost of it being more than just friends. You would know damn right if she was "into" you by now. Keep searching amigo, this aint the juan.
And for the real question - where are the mother fucking pics?
Fuck man, if you're being this insecure and analytical she can surely sense it. Maybe you should date men.
Maybe i'm not explaining this well... I do not want to get with her! I mean she's really cool and all but I do not want her as a GF or even a FF. I do not care apart from just knowing for the sake of knowing. I am not trying to get with her, i never tried to get with her and i do not care if i never get with her.
Originally Posted by
JGordon
Just let things happen naturally. She was the one who told you to be platonic, so in my mind it's up to her if she wants to move in a different direction. It doesn't sound like you "must have her," so I wouldn't risk making things awkward by asking her/making a move right now.
Girls will totally just hang out in the car just to talk. They operate on a different wavelength with those types of signals than men do. I think she just sees you as a cool guy who is fun to talk to. If she is interested, she'll let you know.
That's the thing... i think this was her way of letting me know. I mean seriously she stayed in my car for a long time. and at the end we weren't even talking it just seemed like she wanted more.
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Originally Posted by
white_n_slow
leave it be. If she wants you she'll make it clear soon enough. Otherwise, why have an awkward, embarrassing scene when you could just chill and enjoy the friendzone?
you are right... that's what i'll do and next time i see her i'll see how it goes.