Ok so i met this chick a couple of months ago online. we went out a couple of times but after we decided that, in her own word "we had more of a platonic feel". So after that, we started hanging out more and seeing each other like every week but with other people around. Tonight we went out (4 of us) and i dropped all of them home. She was last on the list and when we arrived at her place we chilled in the car for a while talking and having fun. There was def a connection there... after a while she was just chilling in my car and i have the feeling that she wanted me to go for it and kiss her. I didnt...

She finally gets out of the car and now I'm left wondering if she still feels like this is platonic. I want to know!

But here's the thing, I'm not totally sure I'd want it to go to more then platonic. We are VERY different.

Still i really want to know.

I feel like just txting her and saying "so do you still get the platonic vibe?". If not because I want a relationship, for the ego boost. and i know i shouldn't but i'm so confused about the mixed signals

 

Just ask her one thing:

"Are you vibin me right now?"

 

by txt?

 

No. You're over the age of 15.

 

that's what i'm saying! but it didn't occur to me to ask in the car. And now I just feel like i NEED to know.

 

Just wait it out and see how it goes the next time you guys hang out. What's the rush if there's no interest? If she's digging on you, you'll be able to tell soon enough.

 

Quite honestly, I think you marinated the fish just right.

She's probably wondering what she did wrong due to you not kissing her. o:

I hate dating!

 

^ this man should write a book

 

Go over there right now, knock on her door...when she answers, grab her and kiss her. Then walk away.

 

go tell her "girl, i wanna git wit chu".