Long day at work, and come home to this...
03-20-2010, 07:05 AM
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Actually i take that back... Danni its what YOU feel like doing. I'm sure your fiance will understand... maybe be a bit confused and what not but she'll hopefully end up understand or accepting and getting over it. But from what you've posted it doesn't look like its even ogling to get to that point.
03-20-2010, 11:05 AM
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Dude I would totally go... Your fiance knows that you are with her because that is who you have chosen. Ancient history with you and this other girl. If you cry you cry, she was important to you and a friend after the fact it seems like. My gf dated a guy like 4 years ago for a couple of years, and they don't talk much now but I know if something similar happened she would be upset because he was a big part of her life at one point. I would not be jealous if she cried, I would just be there to be supportive.
03-20-2010, 02:53 PM
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It's someone that you cared for. A memorial service is, to me, a celebration of a persons life. In this case a life which it seems you had been a good part of.
RIP
03-21-2010, 12:41 PM
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Just got back from the funeral, and all went well. It was hard, but no tears, and my woman was there by my side. I guess the only reason I didn't get too emotional was that it was a very peaceful kinda feeling. She looked like she wasn't in pain anymore. Another day passes and i will continue on. Thanks for all the input.
03-21-2010, 01:35 PM
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Sorry to hear that man. Good to hear you went and had somewhat of "closure" for that relationship. I'm pretty sure you would've regretted it if you didn't go, and if anything happens with your fiance i'm sure it could be worked out over time.
