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From: michigan
OK, so here's the deal... I've been dating some girl for maybe 1.5 months... nothing too serious.
I've also been seeing some other girl (a friend of a friend who just moved to town and knows nobody here) so I volunteered to show her around and give her some company, introduce her to my friends, etc. Tonight I saw her for the third time in a month or so. Things were going fine, good conversation, etc... then she asked me how long it's been since I had a gf, and I was like "Well, I sorta have one now, nothing too serious, but I dunno." Bad move, by the way. Keep in mind, this girl had been very personable and easy to get along with up to this point... she immediately got this pissed off look on her face and said something along the lines of "Nothing too serious, so does that mean you're just fucking her or what?" I was like A) why do you give a shit, when did I ever lead you to believe we were dating? B) I'm mildly offended (I've only humped a few girls, all of which except for the current were LTRs). Apparently this girl was eyeing me for a potential beaux. Then she asked me if I had any hot friends... to which I replied, naw, not really. It just kinda struck me as odd because I didn't think she was interested in a relationship and we seemed to be getting on just great as friends. :dunno:
ib:ghey:
I've also been seeing some other girl (a friend of a friend who just moved to town and knows nobody here) so I volunteered to show her around and give her some company, introduce her to my friends, etc. Tonight I saw her for the third time in a month or so. Things were going fine, good conversation, etc... then she asked me how long it's been since I had a gf, and I was like "Well, I sorta have one now, nothing too serious, but I dunno." Bad move, by the way. Keep in mind, this girl had been very personable and easy to get along with up to this point... she immediately got this pissed off look on her face and said something along the lines of "Nothing too serious, so does that mean you're just fucking her or what?" I was like A) why do you give a shit, when did I ever lead you to believe we were dating? B) I'm mildly offended (I've only humped a few girls, all of which except for the current were LTRs). Apparently this girl was eyeing me for a potential beaux. Then she asked me if I had any hot friends... to which I replied, naw, not really. It just kinda struck me as odd because I didn't think she was interested in a relationship and we seemed to be getting on just great as friends. :dunno:
ib:ghey:
B: the way you put it does sound like you are just trying to be a "player"
C: you could have worded it much better that you have some other fish on the line but you haven't currently reeled them in.
D: I :draco: you
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it's my D in a B
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From: Your Mom's House
A: you are an idiot for telling a potential girl that you sorta have a girlfriend. In essence you basically cock blocked yourself.
B: the way you put it does sound like you are just trying to be a "player"
C: you could have worded it much better that you have some other fish on the line but you haven't currently reeled them in.
D: I :draco: you
B: the way you put it does sound like you are just trying to be a "player"
C: you could have worded it much better that you have some other fish on the line but you haven't currently reeled them in.
D: I :draco: you
B) Not trying to be a player at all... I don't know how you're supposed to describe a girl you've only been seeing for a short while
C) Yeah, probably. If you have any suggestions, I could use them for future reference
h:D) :madfawk:
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CBOTY 2010
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From: MI
met amazing girl over weekend, we talkin. going to a concert in a couple weeks, she comin to visit again this weekend or next. big fan
then there's the girl who wasnt interested before who is now because she found out about this new girl, so i got that tooh:
then there's the girl who wasnt interested before who is now because she found out about this new girl, so i got that too
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Shake n Bake!
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From: Pittsburgh, PA
We're doin good.. just celebrated 1 year. Aside from needing some breathing room, I'm happy with the relationship. We work at the same place, so she wants to email all day (talked to her about it), lives a mile away, so it's 'easier' to visit or drop by, and then when we arent together there's texting going on.. even when I ask for some time to do my things - so I end up having to put the phone somewhere away from me and ignore her, but she's working on that and getting better. Sometimes I have to make a point that 'we aren't married, you don't need to cling to me 24 hours a day' - well I guess that right there is my biggest issue and the reason for the paragraph I just wrote, she's a bit clingy, but like I said, she's workin on it.. even if that means me being a jerk sometimes.
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it's my D in a B
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From: Your Mom's House
We're doin good.. just celebrated 1 year. Aside from needing some breathing room, I'm happy with the relationship. We work at the same place, so she wants to email all day (talked to her about it), lives a mile away, so it's 'easier' to visit or drop by, and then when we arent together there's texting going on.. even when I ask for some time to do my things - so I end up having to put the phone somewhere away from me and ignore her, but she's working on that and getting better. Sometimes I have to make a point that 'we aren't married, you don't need to cling to me 24 hours a day' - well I guess that right there is my biggest issue and the reason for the paragraph I just wrote, she's a bit clingy, but like I said, she's workin on it.. even if that means me being a jerk sometimes.